well iv pretty much been like this for a long time. im a 15 year old girl. i get really obsessed over a crush sometime. its like all i think about. once i had one like this for almost a year. i get really crazy about him, sometimes for many months, and than when i finnaly stop liking him i feel realy very sad. like he dumped me or something. like hes a big jerk. usualy when my crushes end ill think the guy is verry unappealling, ugly, jerk, stupid. and ill feel stupid that i even liked him. i usually almost never talk to my crushes. i even feel this way when my crushes are on tv. is this normal and has it ever happened to any of you?
2006-08-04 13:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It's not only normal, it's obligatory.
That's according to my aunt, who's in her '60's and has Johnny Depp posters all over her bedroom. She says, "An active heart is a healthy heart, and that doesn't just mean physically".
Love...even little, silly, temporary loves...are fun!
2006-08-04 13:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by St. Hell 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I had a crush like that when I was 14...I was obsessed with him. He had a crush on another girl and I hated her even though she never did anything to me. I'm so glad I'm over that now!
2006-08-04 14:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All my life...fast forward 15 years...now you're me, and it's still happening...lol.
I think maybe it isn't a crush. Do you really want to kiss this person and do..um..certain things? Or do you want to talk to them and hug them and tell them how you feel about things in your life?
In other words, do you need them or do you need someone?
2006-08-04 13:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so normal. Yes, we all behaved like that at 15, and some of us still do!
2006-08-04 17:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GAWD YES!!!! i get crushes all the time. they're fun!!!
2006-08-04 13:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋