He keeps saying that we are friends but at night he comes around begging for money for crack. I'm not really good at being mean or forcefull. What's a good and easy to let him down and get rid of him without causing him to explode in anger and get violent?
2006-08-04 13:36:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
mariposa, I'm not selling him crack!
2006-08-04 15:20:22 · update #1
My ex-husband was on crack and a drug dealer killed him 6 wks ago. You need to stop answering the door for one. Put your foot down and let him know you are not going to support his habit. And also let him know you aren't going to make the drug dealers rich. My ex husband did the same to me and I finally had to get a restraining order on him. It's tough love for the both of you. But how would you feel if he would overdose on the crack and it was the money you gave him to buy it? Or like my ex get killed in a bad drug deal and you were the one that gave him the money to make the deal?
2006-08-04 13:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's only one hope for depression. That is an effective anti depressant medication. Depression comes from a checmical imbalance in the neurotransmitters and the brain and nothing in the world will alleviate unless you compensate for it. The right medication will do it. When you're depressed, you're unable to interact with a therapist by talking or be with or around anyone so talk therapy won't work. Being around people is a waste because the loss of interest makes it difficult to tolerate company and again, verbal interaction. You will have no desire for pets or taking care of animals as it's too labor intensive, too complex and your mind can't handle it. Excercise requires motivation which you have none. Until you can compensate for the chemical imbalance that's causing the depression and anxiety, none of these suggestions are useful.. Once you regain your sense of motivation and desire to do things, only then can any interaction or activity possibly help feel good.. There are ssri's, snri's mao inhibitors and trycyclic anti depressants. Some work better than others depending on the individdual. It is frustrating until you find one that works well with tolerable side effects. If none of these are ever an option, try ect (shock therapy)l
2016-03-26 23:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you have to snap on a crackhead. Unless...you tell him you're broke(no money)at least on more than two occasions, he'll get away from you faster than Bruce Lee ridin' a Fuji(lol)!
2006-08-04 13:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by lempala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him money!
Get a Narcotics Anonymous meeting list and give it to him. Try to get him into treatment/detox.
Call the cops on him.
2006-08-04 13:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be mean, rude and forceful. Try ignoring him if you can't do that. He will go onto better pickings if you ignore him.
2006-08-04 13:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the door. Call the police if you must. Tell him you don't have cash on you.
2006-08-04 13:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit selling him crack.
2006-08-04 13:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you can afford to, move and don't let him or anyone else who knows him know where.
2006-08-04 13:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by imagineworldwide 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋