Say you are married and this other guys is married and he says that he is unhappy with his life and wants to get involved with you.
You have NO INTENTION of cheating on your husband or doing anything with this other guy.
Would you tell the other guys wife?
2006-08-04 13:31:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why start all the drama and most likely she won't believe you until she sees it for herself. If she were your best friend then that a different story
2006-08-04 13:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell the other guys wife. There would be no reason to . You should however tell your husband because a relationship is based on trust. I you told the other guys wife she would probably wouldn't beleive you and think that you are the one that is after her husband. The question is what do you think about this other guy? Are you unhappy?
2006-08-04 13:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by November 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close u r with his wife. If u haven't even met her that would definitely B out of the question,she'll just think that u r the one who wants her husband! Trust me, its best to tell him u aren't interested & let them work out their own problems. Dont get involved, if u do, when they start having problems they'll blame u. Do u want that kind of pressure on your shoulders?
2006-08-04 13:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Bab-E@Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to stop any misconceptions right from the beginning. If the married man approaches you again, just say you're not interested and make it clear that you're uncomfortable with the situation. If he is persistent, then maybe talk to his wife.
2006-08-08 11:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Beezer101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not your business unless she is friend of you. However, you tell the man to just leave the relationship staying in something that makes him so unhappy will only cause more grief later..
2006-08-04 13:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by aimlynsmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your just asking for trouble. She will find out in her own way. Getting involved in someone else's marriage is always a HUGE mistake and can backfire on you. Better to keep quiet.
2006-08-04 13:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have no intentions and you would appreciate it if he not bring this up again. If he continues, tell your husband first before you go to his wife.
2006-08-04 13:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Causing trouble for them is not the answer. The man needs to re evaluate his priorities and discuss things with his wife. Tell him how happy you are with your man. Suggest to him to go make his wife happy. They need some fun with adult toys!!
2006-08-04 13:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by passionate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This to me is a hard question. I know for sure I would tell him to get lost , but I don't know if I could handle hurting his wife. Usually if you give someone enough rope they hang themselves. I think I would have to let him get caught on his own......boy this is a tough one for me. I'm not sure what I'd do.
2006-08-04 13:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me yes,I would like to know.Because you think that he's being faithful and he's creeping around.Some people would say it's not for you to tell,but you do what you feel is right.If it was your husband would you want another woman to tell you.I'm glad that you aren't going to act on that situation.Good for you.
2006-08-04 13:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋