i am gay but love my babys momma in a diffrent was than my bf joe is that even possible?also i am gay but want alot of children how do i do that i want my babys mamma to be the same as the one that i am having with her can i do that
2006-08-04 13:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i am not bisexual i love her in a way like i love my friends but not like a my boyfriend and u didnt answer my questions
2006-08-04 13:24:02 · update #1
does any one understand whati mean by love her i dont love har as a gf but a friend
2006-08-04 13:29:12 · update #2
my babys momma knows and my bf doesnt care about her being around
2006-08-04 14:02:29 · update #3
No, you can't do it. She will want to marry a man and that man will not want you hanging around.
2006-08-04 13:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor Hand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Whatever happened to capital letters, periods, and proper spelling? It is hard to ever figure out what you are trying to ask.
It sounds like you are bisexual, and there is nothing wrong with that. You can find a woman who would be willing to share you with another man, or find a bisexual man who would be willing to be in a family unit with both you and your woman. That way you would all be a group, everyone gets what they want and need, and the child or children would grow up with three loving parents, instead of just two really confused ones.
2006-08-04 13:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by loriahaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it be..if that's how you feel..the way i understand it is that you are gay..you have a boyfriend..and you have a child with a woman and you're loving her (your baby's mother) but as a friend..not in the same that you love your boyfriend..and then you wanna have lots of kids with that same woman of your baby's mother..well, I guess the best thing to do is go for what you feel..you're orientation is gay..just do what truly fulfills you as a person..if you like to have kids (with the woman) if you're feelin' it that's your option..I guess you're boyfriend will understand (of course he knows it)..so I'm sure he will..your desire is to have kids..and if the same girl wants to have (the) kids with you..it's (also) up to her...
2006-08-11 21:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by sexy_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let the mother of your child decide what is going on because it must hurt her to know that you prefer men over her. Let her decide if she wants to be your baby machine and I would also make sure that your bf wouldn't be upset to have her around. Is that what you mean??
2006-08-04 13:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURE, IT'POSSIBLE TO TO LOVE YOUR BF AND YOUR BABYS MOMMA. THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR YOUR BABYS MOMMA WILL ALWAYS BE SPECIAL...IN THAT YOU BOTH SHARE A CHILD. THAT IS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN NEVER SHARE WITH YOUR BF. IT IS UNFORTUNATE, BUT THAT'S THE WAY IT IS. YOUR BABYS MOMMA SOUNDS LIKE SHE'S A VERUY SPECIAL GIRL, AND YOU ARE LUCKY TO HAVE HER IN YOUR LIFE. YOU ARE ALSO VERY LUCKY TO HAVE YOUR BF IN YOUR LIFE....YOU ARE A VERY LUCKY GUY! I SUPPOSE THE BEST WAY TO KEEP BOTH OF THESE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE IS TO BE HONEST WITH BOTH OF THEM. TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT EACH ONE OF THEM AND BE SURE THAT YOU ARE HONEST ABOUT EVERYTHING. YOU CAN NEVER GO WRONG WHEN YOU TRY TO HIDE THE TRUTH, ESPECIALLY FROM THE MOST IMPORTANT PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE. AS A GAY MAN, I KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF EMBRACING YOUR LIFESTYLE...YOU CANNOT RUN AWAY FROM IY, IT'S WHO YOU ARE. YOU MUST ALSO CONSIDER YOUR CHILD, YOU WANT HIM OR HER TO KNOW LOVE, TRUTH AND HONESTY. IT'S A VALUE EVERY CHILD NEEDS TO LEARN....SO...LOVE WHO YOU CHOOSE AND HOW YOU CHOOSE. DO WHAT YOU HEART TELLS YOU.....NEVER SAY THAT YOU 'CANT' DO WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE. YOUR LIFE IS YOUR TO BE WHO YOU CHOOSE TO BE, TO LOVE WHO YOU CHOOSE AND BE PROUD AND CELEBRATE WHO YOU ARE......GOOD LUCK TO YOU, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. edplimplaza555@yahoo.com I'M HERE IF YOU WANNA CHAT!
2006-08-04 13:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by eddie d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you have children, learn how to express yourself in writing so as to be understood. I really had a hard time reading and understanding a paragraph that contained no punctuation or capital letters. You'll have to be able to teach your child these things...right?
2006-08-12 11:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by tammyb752001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tottaly understand you sort of in the same boat just oppisite sexes u love her becouse you have a child together a bond between you guys that cant be broke the child loves both of you the same and you love her becouse she help give youa child without her u couldent have done it and u love your bf in a more intamite way hope i helped you out
2006-08-04 13:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont understand wat u r saying but how do u have a baby momma and you are Gay?
anyway your child has your last name and i think thats all you really care about?
u can have a lot of babies by donating sperms and still being gay instead of Bi
i know i didnt answer your question but it really doesnt make any sense to me
2006-08-11 09:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh....well this sounds like ur bisexual and do u want still want to be with ur babys momma or ur bf or both thats for u to decide
2006-08-04 13:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by AmanDuh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are actually a lot of men that have many children, but are gay. If she is agreeable to it... and your bf, then hey... you wouldnt be the first.
2006-08-04 13:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can proably adopt or if she is welling maybe she would have another child for you.. .. . .its nice that your bf and ex gf get along that must really help things for you!
Best of luck!
2006-08-04 14:47:09 · answer #11 · answered by R.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋