kisses my g/f on the cheek when he greets her. I know most people dont mind this, but I do. I just dont want anyone else to touch her but me. I dont even like when other people hug her, but I got used to that....NOW here comes a good friend that kisses her on the cheek everytime. ( telling him not to do that is not an option ) I would feel too embarrased to ask that. HELP!?!?!
2006-08-04 13:05:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is not that I think she likes him, I just dont want anyone to touch her.
2006-08-04 13:10:31 · update #1
by the way, this is how he greets ALL girls not just my g/f.
2006-08-04 13:17:52 · update #2
Well I know exactly what you're talking about because my fiance has fessed up with the same sort of confession to me. He absolutely can't stand when I touch another guy or vice versa...in the same type of manner you mentioned. It's a male thing though; it really is. I don't think there is any blame in it. It's almost as if another guy touching her is like putting his scent on her...I know that sounds primal and animalistic...but I think it stems from the same thing. I really don't think it's a confidence thing...I mean it's another guy!!! Friends or not..right?
Since you're girlfriend would probably get mad, I'd have to recommend gritting your teeth and just try to accept it. At least you are present when it happens; tell yourself that. And if any guy ever tries to touch her in a manner that really makes you uncomfortable...like hands in an inappropriate place...I'd calmly let her know later that it bothered you. Other than that...as a female...I watch my fiance's eyes almost go out of his head sometimes when that happens...but I just smile at him and let him know it's ok. Of course, they only hug me...no kisses...only my gay guy friends are allowed to do that! I understand that it would make me uncomfortable for a girl to kiss him...ANYWHERE! lol
You could even possibly try telling her in a calm manner one day...out of no where. In a question form I'd say...that's what Riien did....something like..."Is it weird that anytime a guy even comes near you I feel like getting crazy!" See what her response is...and go from there.
2006-08-04 13:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either get use to it or tell her to make him stop. Or you could have a friend of yours that is a girl kiss you on the cheek in front of her and if she ask you to make her stop then ask her to make him stop. Hope you find a answer for this.
2006-08-04 13:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are over protective, and peranoid buddy. Gosh, if you keep acting like this you may lose her. That "she's MINE, don't touch additude" is SO unatractive.
Oh, I've got an idea, why don't you keep her locked it the house, or you could make her wear a big sign that says " I belong to (insert name), don't touch, or maybe "My boyfriend requires you to keep an arm length away from me, I belong only to him"
2006-08-04 13:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn dude, MAN UP!! That is your girlfriend! If you don't like it then HE needs to deal with, it not you. Embarrassed??? Are you joking?? Sorry man I am not being harsh and you don't have to make it a big deal with him just say, "You kissing _____ when you see her is kind of weirding me out so chill with that s***". Don't be scared to say what you are thinking, ESPECIALLY when it involves your girl and another man. That is just me though.
2006-08-04 13:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by jinxed_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him you don't like it, and if he's your freind he'll stop. Really what kind of freind would do that in the first place. Unless you live in Italy or something.
2006-08-04 13:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by xphile2015 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont get mad its ok shes yours and as long as you treat her good and love and respect her you have no problem at all
2006-08-04 13:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over yourself... she's with you, be confident in that...
2006-08-04 13:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋