So I used to have this friend named Chris. He totally rocked. I worked with him. Then I got married and moved away. It's been four years and I bumped into him on the street. It was awkward. Then I saw him at the gas station, he lives pretty close to me. It was awkward again. I miss him and want to get that friendship back. He works at the gas station, which is just blocks from where I live. What should I do? The conversations we had were awkward, but that's just normal right? Things used to be so cool with us. What can I do?
2006-08-04 12:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by Maggie 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We were just friends, not more. He isn't married, I am.
2006-08-04 14:27:40 · update #1
For those of you who think it is trouble to be friends with him, you're crazy! I told you, WE WERE ONLY FRIENDS BEFORE AND I ONLY WANT TO BE FRIENDS NOW. As a grown woman, I am perfectly capable of being friends with a man without cheating on my husband. My husband knows the guy, he is completely supportive of me kindling the friendship again. They have met and everything, so it's not a secret. Yes, my husband is my best friend, but married people are not required to cut off friendships with everyone. I am bisexual, does that mean I shouldn't be friends with women either? No. Adults can have friends without having to sleep with them. Hello!
2006-08-12 10:51:10 · update #2
have a party and invite him.
2006-08-04 13:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm my first-class peers sure, however despite the fact that I love the ladies I hang around with, I wouldn't completely believe them. It sounds terrible however I understand for a incontrovertible fact that they usually gossip approximately each and every different. Either method is say I have a few peers who're both reasonable climate peers and a few who're like sisters to me.
2016-08-28 12:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from him and his work place. Your only asking for trouble down the road. Your husband is your no.1 friend now, so don't mess things up with him.
2006-08-12 10:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you two were just friends, then there should be no problem, if you two were romanticly involved,,hmmm,,,,well,,if he is still married,,,you could probably talk to him, ask if you could meet his wife,,,then invite his wife and him to your house for cook out or party...but make sure you personally ask his wife if they would like to come to your house,,,that way your respectfull of her, thats the most important thing.
2006-08-04 13:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by ~~Penny~~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Past is past and dont spoil your future, Just tell your hubby abt him and ask him whether we can invite him for dinner.
2006-08-11 21:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by NANI 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just good friends nothing more then that !!!
2006-08-11 22:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by megha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋