my brother recently made a new friend (a boy) who hangs out our house every day and my brother and "Chad" do everything together. a few days ago i was getting out of the shower
and "Chad" walked in ( im a boy 3 yrs younger than him). it was really akward and lately Chad hasn't been around at all. My brother
thinks it was something i did but how am i supposed to
explain that his friend saw me naked after a shower? my brother
does not take kindly to confrontation and certainly would
kill me for this Help PLZ!!
2006-08-04 12:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You are feeling guilty and, from what you have written, you have done nothing to feel guilty about. It is a "shame" issue for you, I suspect. The easiest way to have dealt with this would have been to prevent it : you should have locked the bathroom door while showering, and if there was no lock, you should have yelled at Chad for walking into the bathroom while you were showering. That would have put you on the offensive and you would not have had to explain yourself later on.
What you need to do now is make a sign (like on motel room doors). One sign should say "OCCUPIED", the other side should say "UNOCCUPIED". Thumbtack it to the bathroom door. When your brother asks why it is there tell him, "Your dumb friends walk in the bathroom without knocking." Your brother will then understand and not blame you. Everyone is entitled to privacy.
Good Luck !
2006-08-04 13:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell your brother that Chad saw you naked on the bathroom but say it after 1 day
2006-08-04 13:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He walked in on you, you have nothing to be afraid or ashamed of. I suggest you just tell your brother the truth. I think Chad is just embarrassed and that is why he is staying away
2006-08-04 13:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by oopiedoopiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just tell him to ask chad what happened and if chad lies to him or distorts the truth tell him what really happened
2006-08-04 13:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WASNT YOUR FAULT, CHAD SHOULD HAVE BEEN POLITE ENOUGH TO KNOCK. HE PROBABLY FEELS UNCOMFORATABLE BECAUSE HE WALKED IN ON YOU AND THATS WHY HE HASNT COME BACK. IF HE IS A FRIEND TO YOUR BROTHER, HE WILL GET OVER IT AND COME BACK. YOUR BROTHER SHOULDNT BLAME YOU FOR THIS.
2006-08-04 13:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by JUST ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that chad walked in on you then tell him to ask chad
2006-08-04 13:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, and for crying out loud, just lock the door next time!!! LOL :)
2006-08-04 13:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by alone1with3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My rule......... if you see me naked, it is your fault!
Who's eyes are they anyway? Not mine.
2006-08-04 14:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by OU812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting... consider yourself lucky:
If you have something I've never seen before....I'm shooting!
2006-08-04 14:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by coffeegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tak to him he might understand
2006-08-04 13:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋