what if your boyfriend asks you to marry him you want to but you don't feel that he really loves you that much what should i do?
2006-08-04 12:43:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him that. If you were ready to be married telling him should not be a problem.
2006-08-04 12:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by jinxed_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER GET MARRIED IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE NOT READY. You need to be honest with him set yourself goals and tell him. Like if you want to get married until you finish school or buy a house things like that. If you don't communicate with him NOW once you're married you'll never do it and that is not good. Practice your communication now and not when it's too late.
2006-08-04 12:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long you have been going out with your boyfriend, if it hasn't been for long you could tell him that you think it's to soon to be thinking of marriage, if it has been a while just tell him that you love him but your not ready to get married just yet.
2006-08-04 12:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by hedgehog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him. It's that simple. If you don't feel he really loves you, then tell him your reasons why you don't want to marry him. Things could change in the future, but you don't want to marry someone who doesn't love you as much as you think they should.
2006-08-04 12:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by mocaica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously sit down and talk about it and let him know how you feel. Because if you two aren't on the same page then it will cause problems to arise later. The worst thing you can do is say yes then take it back later. How long have you two been together?
I hope whatever you decide to do is for the best and your not settling, love is many things and one thing it is not is unsure.... talk about it with him and see what happens. Its best to be honest then to just go along with it.
Best of wishes to you!
2006-08-04 12:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont feel that he loves you as much as you love him, do not marry him. Go with your instincts. You'll always wonder if there's someone else who love you like you deserve.
2006-08-04 12:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by kah35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him and tell him that you are not ready to be married now, but maybe later on you will...If he really loves you then he will be glad to wait!
2006-08-04 13:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by brat71825 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him say yes, but make it a long engagement so you can work out your worries before you actually take the plunge.
Don't make a date untill your sure it feels right. Hope that helps.
2006-08-04 12:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the very incontrovertible fact that you're doubting your self ability you aren't any further waiting, hun. tell your boyfriend the way you sense, and if he won't be able to comprehend then say no. in case you comprehend you want.. no LIKE him and he's gonna keep on with you by ability of thick and skinny... then perhaps have a lengthy engagement and then finally marry. Marriage isn't something you wanna rush into. i'm 18 and that i wanna marry my boyfriend who's a lot older than me yet i comprehend that I will in no way want to divorce so i'm being careful.
2016-11-28 03:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by peirson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋