2006-08-04 12:25:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because there is no way to repair the marriage or regain the feelings that are lost. When the respect is gone in a relationship or marriage, then it is very hard to regain it. Counseling works for some, but generally once it is over, it's over.
2006-08-04 12:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by thedothanbelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship takes two people who want to be in it and are willing to work with each other and respect each other. Both people must be 100% mature and whole emotionally. When both people have "issues" it is unlikely a marriage will last. When one person is whole and the other has issues it takes super-human effort for one person to keep the relationship going, be the "giver" and be the "builder". Sometimes even though the one healthy, whole person tries his/her best the other person is so needy or demanding the healthy person just gets exhausted or else intimidated and must leave. One person may be entirely ok with the idea of trying to hang onto an empty marriage for life or the sake of the children, but sometimes the difficult person just gets beligerant or worse or the environment gets unhealthy for the children, and a divorce is the only answer.
2006-08-04 19:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When respect or trust is gone, so is the marriage. Sometimes, it's better for both people that way. Most divorces happen in the first YEAR. You sound young. Be selective of who you marry.
2006-08-05 01:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by jokerscard692000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some say " marraige is a gamble and a game of lifetime that takes to perfect".
ever dislike someone but still have to be close or sit near to him/her? how is the feeling?
some how its almost the same here but more personal. in life especially marraige, if it dont work and cant tolerate each another's presence and doing, whats the point of remaining in it?
it would be a torture and time wasting for all. some would say " think of the kids", but to some its the risk that they took and they lost. they're disdavantaging the kids. but who knows the wisdom and experience gained could be use for a better one?
2006-08-04 19:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just aren't made for each other. they cant get along. there's lots of reasons people get divorced that's why its there. they move on and find someone else that hopefully they can live with and maybe it will work out. and if it doesn't well hey that's why there's Ross (lol from friends).
2006-08-04 20:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by sj830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people divorce not because of love and sex but rather they have begin to grow and even gone into a different spectrum and parts of their lives. be it habit or even a change in their mindset as they grow
never be a god to judge people
2006-08-06 23:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two people to make a marriage work. However, it only takes one person to destroy it.
There's lots of "reasons", but that doesn't change the fact that unless both people are committed to making it work..it won't.
2006-08-04 21:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when one r both spouses become lazy in the marriage, it's like they forget about what brought them together in the first.
2006-08-04 20:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well every case is different and trust me in mine when he decided to start doing coke and beating me on a regular basis i left his azz and have never looked back.
2006-08-04 20:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because one or both of them no longer put the other one first.
2006-08-04 19:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by starla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋