Survery for girls about relationships?

Question

I would really appreciate if you answered all of the questions as they are important to determining a conclusion.

1. What is the difference of dating and a relationship?
2. Do you value an honest relationship?
3. Have you ever cheated in a relationship?
4. What would it take to cause you to decide to cheat?
5. What would be the reason for cheating? thrill/revenge/spite/etc
6. Would you cheat more than once?

Answer 1

1. What is the difference of dating and a relationship?
A: Dating is understood to be casual, and non-exclusively plural (it's a practice that should be revived, actually). Relationships are exclusive and longer term agreements between people.
2. Do you value an honest relationship?
A: DUH! Honesty is a cornerstone of any healthy relationship.
3. Have you ever cheated in a relationship?
A: No.
4. What would it take to cause you to decide to cheat?
A: A severe brain injury that would utterly destroy my ability to think intelligently and rationally.
5. What would be the reason for cheating? thrill/revenge/spite/etc
A: Severely altered mental status.
6. Would you cheat more than once?
A: Depends on the severity of my psychosis.

People who think about and take responsibility for their actions and have empathy for their partners don't resort to stupid things like infidelity. Being drunk kills judgment, but you're still cognizant of what's going on, so it's a lame excuse for cheating.

Answer 2

well here goes..

1. Dating is a casual thing. Does not mean committment. Free to "date" other people. Dating in a form of relationship however it does not mean a committed relationship. To me a Relationship is when me and the other person have mutually decided to see only each other.

2. To me honesty is EVERYTHING. I don't handle liars very well anyways...whether they are my bf or just a friend or a co-worker.
I don't think I'm that unappproachable. Just TELL me what's going on. I'd rather communicate than get blindsided.

3. I only cheated when I was a practicing alcoholic and drug addict. I have been clean and sober 22 years now and have not cheated once. I care too much about MYSELF to put any added drama into my life.

4. I think the only reason I would cheat would be if someone had cheated on me first. Once I get the visual in my mind of my bf and another woman being naked together...then the trust will never return... been there done that. Once a cheater always a cheater. kinda like once a woman beater..always a woman beater.

5. Definitely revenge.

6. If both parties have cheated (which would happen if someone cheated on me...) then in my opinion why prolong the pain and drama. The relationship should end. Apparently one or both parties involved aren't happy... why beat a dead horse to death?

I have a question for you... what conclusion are you looking for?
People are human.. Stuff happens.. People make mistakes.
Alcohol and drugs can definitely alter any situation. I try to live life one day at a time.. try to be a good person.. try to treat people how I want to be treated... and usually God takes care of the rest.

Answer 3

1. dating: out with me one weekend and some other girl the next weekend.....relationship: you are with me only we still have dates but only with eachother.

2. honesty is always the best policy. less heart ache and lies take up too much energy to keep up with anyway.

3. yes i have cheated. i think at some point in everyone's life they probably did cheat on thier significant other. i was honest and fessed up but i also knew that was a sign i was no longer interested and that was the end anyway.

4. when i have in the past it's been an eye for an eye kind of thing or i just lost interest in the person i was with so i found a new one, or i knew that it would lead to a break up even if it was a one night stand.

5. although this was already answered...revenge, bored with the person i am with

6. i have cheated more than once.

Answer 4

1. Dating is going on dates, a relationship is calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend.
2. I value a honest relationship very much.
3. yes, i have cheated..but I was younger.
4. It depends, If i'm not in a serious realationship, I wouldnt consider it cheating.
5. Not enough attention.
6. If I felt it was necessary, I probly would.

Answer 5

1. Dating is hanging out, not seeing eachother exclusively, relationship is exclusive.
2. Of course I do
3. Yes I have
4. Some liquor
5. The reason I have cheated in the past was because I didn't have feelings for the guy, but was too chicken to break up with him maturely.
6. I wouldn't cheat at all anymore

Answer 6

1. The person u are dating is justa friend not serious will really go on with you to and a relationship is when u r witha girl n u love her and will do anything to please her as while as for her.
2.yes sure do, to me it is very important that u do that.
3.No i have not n i dont think that it is good brcause if u really have something good u dont wanna loose it over someone who u dont love n is not important to you.
4. Me i never did u before so i dont know.
5. But if i was to cheat it would be to get back at him 4 cheating on me but i know to wrongs dont make a right.
6. No i am not that type of person.

Answer 7

1. Dating is when you just casually date. You go out and have dinner or go to a movie or something but you are free to date other people. A relationship is when you two are serious about each other and don't want to date other people. You share your lives together, family etc.
2. Yes if you can't be honest then what is the point?
3. Yes with my ex but in all honesty he was using me for a standby and I should have broken up with him a long time ago.
4. In my last relationship he was never around. He never thought about me. He always forgot me at my birthday, christmas, etc. He wasn't there. I was just a standby. I never got attention or affection from him so when other guys showed me attention I went for it because I lacked it.
5. Lack of attention
6. Since I have grown older if I was unhappy I say something. I don't fester I don't wander. I take care of it. Since my ex if I am in a relationship if doesn't want to meet my needs or really be in the relationship it is time to go.

Answer 8

1. Dating is casual you can see other ppl and not feel guilty. No friends have been met and you have only gone out a few times. A relationship is when you see each other most if not every day of the week, you hang out with each others friends together and you see no oe else. A relationship is trial MARRIAGE so make sur your ready!

2. yes

3.nope

4.nothing!

5.n/a

6.not even once

Answer 9

1. when ur dating u dont love the person ur with and it might be just a filling of time, but when ur in a relationship, its more serious and u both love eachother.
2. of course, an honest realationship is better thatn any realationship, no matter what...
3. i never cheated and never will
4. i never cheated and never will
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Answer 10

1. Dating is exploring someone...relationship is a commitment (at some level).

2. YES

3. I don't belive in (it's) cheating. See "polyamory".

4. see above.

5. see above.

6. see above.