this girl on my swimteam has a thing for me but shes been known to date around, cheat and be a s lut. she flirts with me and tries to grab my crotch and kick me and whenever i get out of the water and have an erection she tells everybody she turned me on . i am getting sick and tired of this and have told her multiple times i dont feel that way about her and asked her to stop everything . she stil does it and its driving me crazy! ADVICE PLZ
2006-08-04 12:07:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
IT SOUNDS LIKE THIS GIRL IS NOT USED TO BEING TURNED DOWN BY MANY OTHER GUYS AND YOU ARE A CHALLENGE TO HER...THAT IS A GOOD THING. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR MORALS AND STANDARDS ARE MUCH HIGHER THAN HERS. YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE IN AUTHORITY AT YOUR SWIMTEAM AND YOU NEED TO DO IT FAST. SOMETIMES WHEN THESE 'girls" DO NOT GET WHAT THEY WANT, THEY MAY EVEN MAY EVEN ACT OUT IN MORE SEVERE MANNERS THAN SHE DOES NOW. I'M SURE THAT GETTING AN ERECTION AROUND YOUR TEAMMATES IS VERY EMBARASSING FOR YOU, AND EVEN MORE EMBARRASING BECAUSE SHE DRAWS EVERYONES ATTENTION TO IT. YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS BY ANYONE AND I HOPE YOU WILL TELL EITHER YOUR PARENTS OR SOMEONE IN AUTHORITY AT THE SWIMTEAM. I'M GLAD YOU HAVENT GIVEN HER THE ATTENTION SHE WANTS....YOU ARE HURTING HER EGO, AND PROBABLY NO ONE ELSE HAS EVER DONE THAT. DONT ALLOW ANYONE TO TOUCH YOU IN AN INNAPROPRIATE WAY. NOTHING GOOD WILL EVER COME OF IT. TELL SOMEONE A.S.A.P. PLEASE, AND PUT A STOP TO IT NOW. YOU'RE TOO GOOD FOR THIS TYPE OF GIRL.
2006-08-04 13:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by eddie d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming if you are on swim team you do have a coach that you can go to with your problem. If she doesn't take no for an answer, you may have to take a further step and report her, that is a form of sexual harrasment.
2006-08-04 12:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by tessebell29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have much but if she's known for dating around and cheeting then she'll probably lose interest in you if you just try to ignore her. I know it'd be hard to ignore people saying crap about you but try.
2006-08-04 12:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's awesome. if she wants to be a slutty let her be. just make sure when you're banging her that you're getting yours. you don't have to feel any way about her. let your penis do all of the feeling for you in this situation.
2006-08-04 12:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her that i was gonna tell the coach about her inappropriate behavior. (just to maybe scare her). but hey, you could really tell the coach.
2006-08-04 12:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋