2006-08-04 11:59:49 · 18 answers · asked by friendlyguy4ya 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The life that was created is half theirs too.
2006-08-04 12:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone really likes to type or they really love that cut and paste feature.
look, in all fairness i think men should have the right to be heard at a certain point.
if the woman is willing, he pays all the medical bills, time off from work, and any other expenses and he takes full custody of the child. there should be a court order to take this into action.
however, if the woman is not willing to do so, she should not be forced. She should have the option of WANTING to give the child to it's rightful father.
here's my take on it. with so many options to prevent pregnancy in the first place, abortion should be a last option. am i against abortion, technically yes. But given the right situation, i just might do it. But at the same time, i fully use my birth control options.
if they seriously passed a law that made abortion illegal again, then every female over the age of 14 should be given a long term birth control automatically. until the age of 18.
but yes, i think a man should be able to plea, and if the situation is right and the woman agrees to it, let him pay for the expenses of having the child. but never force her to remain pregnant.
but that's just my two cents
2006-08-04 19:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men should get to say whether the woman has an abortion, either that or a woman should sign a binding contract that he is not liable for any payments of any sort arising from a woman who chooses to have the baby against his will.
There should be no babies outside of two consenting adults who recognize exactly how much monetary impact a baby is going to have and they are ready for it.
Making someone else take financial or any other type of care of your baby because you cant is beyond stupid and other people dont deserve that. That includes taxpayers as well. The last thing I need is to have to pay taxes to see it go to some 14 yo tramp who doesnt respect herself and somehow thinks she can take care of a baby.
Even worse is a woman deciding to have a baby without a consenting male in the picture, that just destroy's two good lives rather than one.
2006-08-04 19:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Raiddinn Beatdropper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...You know the old saying "it takes two to tango". A child isn't created by a female alone. A man has the every right to voice his opinion or concerns because that is his offspring too. Ultimately the woman has the final say but it helps to know that the father is committed to that child and is planning on being very hands on. As far as being pro-choice or pro-life girls are being more careless with sex now in days because abortion is such an easy "fix" so I'm pro-life in that situation. However, in the cases of rape and/or incest I'm definitely pro-choice.
2006-08-04 19:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by P.R. Chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy wants no part in the bab y i dont beleive that the baby is half theres i think its all yours we carry it we deliver it thats why so many woman have more rights to there child then the man does guys have no idea whats going on in a relationship its just an auto response when you say hey im pregnant where not married what are we going to do .......
2006-08-04 19:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some woman are really STUPID. Y'all B***H if the man ain't there then you get a man that wants some say so and be apart of whats going on and y'all B***H some more. As far as "accidents" use more than 1 contraceptive birth control and condom. Abortion is murder in most cases (unless rape). GET SMART. And as far as the person up there felling guilty don't come on her getting crazy. You made your choice and it is your choice. DEAL WITH IT
2006-08-04 19:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Miranda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only the life created was because of them but abortion or not concerns men`s pocket more than women`s.
2006-08-04 19:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by wiseguywisedude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when it comes to laws dealing with abortion, men should shut up. But, in personal lives, the man's opinion should definitely be considered.
2006-08-04 19:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jikk06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in this situation before id rather make the right desicion then be with an ***
good thing come from right descion same thing happen to a friend found the right guy after she had her baby married now happy
better then being a drinking hoe plus guys dont learn they most luckly get another chick prego and run after another or something
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2006-08-05 17:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats there baby too if the women did not want a kid then she should have kept her legs shut or used protection but a man can not make u have a abortion
save a life not take one
and for the ppl who think its ok to kill a baby your momma should have swollowed or aborted u one less retart ... do us a favor abort yourself so we all feel better IF YOU DONT WANNA BE PREGGO KEEP YOUR DAMN LEGS CLOSED OR USE PROTECTION DONT BE A SLUT
2006-08-04 21:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by shylilly665 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it takes two to make a baby. The woman isn't the only one in the situation.
2006-08-04 19:04:15 · answer #11 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋