what happen was my friend gave me some money to hold for him bout two months ago and I had it for five days one night he wanted back so I sais ok but when I was leaving I got his letter and bag that he want it too. I was rushing out the house the night. I put everything in the car I got half way there and forgot the money. I tried to go back but I didnt have enough gas so I text him but he didnt respond back. He ask me for the money and his other belongings I told him that I forgot the money, I told him that I would go back but I needed gas money.He told me that dont worry about it just wait intill later when I get off. So when I get off,I go straight home to get the money, but the money gone now out of my room I call and told him that he thought that I had something to do with that but I didnt I sware. He stop talking to me for a week then he called me but he was still mad I told him that I wolud pay him back.
2006-08-04 11:50:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That happen in may now its august I paid him back in full and we hang out but its not the same he dont trust me I give him his space and try to take it one day at a time. it hurts that this had happen but I didnt do this. I care and love this man so much.He mainly call me now At first I would see him like once a week or twice now its like everyday. But last week he brought it up again he thinks that Im lying but Im not I really want my friend back what to do
2006-08-04 11:55:35 · update #1
The only thing that can heal a breach of trust is time and patience. You must be patient, and continue being honest and trustworthy with your friend. You have dealt him a deep wound, since he placed so much trust in you in the first place. Just back off a little and let him call the shots until he starts to trust you again. And when you do regain his trust, don't, I repeat DON'T let history repeat itself. I hope things work out for you.
2006-08-12 11:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by whirled_queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying "time heals all wounds"? I think it applies in your situation. Although it may not happen as quickly as you would like, with time you'll be able to regain his trust if you truely are friends. Unfortunately, it is now up to you to prove that you are trustworthy. Even though you did not actually steal the money, it technically was in your possession when it disappeared. I think you did the right thing by replacing the stolen money, and that may be your saving grace in this relationship. Just be honest in the relationship, prove that you are trustworthy... in short, be a true friend.
2006-08-12 11:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by whydowehavetocreateasillyname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know thats a bad situation, i know that people are telling you that hes not a friend but thats not true , because of the events in the place that they happened thats why he thinks that. and i know it hurts you but on the same key if he truly thinks you did something to hurt him hes hurting too but the boy really should of used a bank..
2006-08-04 12:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you pay it back if you did not take it??????? if hes your friend he needs to trust that you had nothing to do with it... and next time tell him to use a bank
2006-08-04 11:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Medical Assistant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off he must be stupid or a dealer they have places called banks for people to put there money in unless they hiding from the law sso tell him to f off
2006-08-12 10:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by spinininthemud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly explain to him that you really think someone stole the money
2006-08-04 11:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is not a friend....A true friend trusts you.....
2006-08-04 12:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Fillie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your "friend" are petty pea-brained LOSERS.
2006-08-11 04:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabye there not your friends ?
2006-08-12 10:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋