She thinks I don't love her enough. I would have done anything for her, I proposed, offered to take her away two days ago to get married abroad, said I would do anything to prove it but she doesn't want to know. She said it is too late. The problem happened because I was supposed to meet her on Saturday afternoon but my mam was taken to hospital early on Saturday morning and was diagnosed with pnumonia,she is 74 and things are looking very bad. I stayed by her side all day and when I went outside and switched my fone back on I had three messages one which said we were finished because she could have went to a barbeque if she'd known I wasn't coming. This made me very angry and I didn't ring her for five days. When I did ring back she said I was too late even though I explained about my mam. She was very cold with me and even a bit flippant about my pain. She said I was too late. She was a wonderfull girl up to that time and I feel I can't go on without her
2006-08-04 11:46:05 · 27 answers · asked by tmittch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yoo its too late mate
2006-08-04 11:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have found a couple of minutes to txt her and tell her you were in the Hospital. However I think she's rather selfish and immature in her response towards what happened on saturday. I get the feeling that she has seen this as an excuse to end the relationship. Best that you try and move on because if she really cared it would have taken a lot more than this to make her end the relationship.
2006-08-04 12:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how long you were dating this girl, but it doesn't sound like she's really the one for you. Someone who truly cared about you wouldn't just give up on a good relationship just because your mam got sick and you didn't call. Unless this is a recurring pattern with you (i.e., you often stand her up or don't call), I'd say this was just an easy excuse for her to break up with you. I know it hurts right now and it probably is made even worse because you are worried about your mam and could use the support. But in the long run it's probably best to move on and find someone who truly cares about you and understands how important your family is. Good luck and my prayers for you mam!
2006-08-04 11:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by cidhi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen to what your are saying she sounds very selfish .
Your mam is in hospital and she gets cross because you miss a Barbeque what person does this???
If my partner give me grief like that i'd have big doubts about the person.
But you still care about this girl it probably was a big shock and it must hurt but was she like this often is this the type of person you want in your life.
I'm sorry to say this but you maybe she was just waiting for some excuse to break up with you and its hard to feel rejected but just take your time and try to get on with things you have enough worries with your sick mam if she is caring she will call and help if not let her go she sounds abit cruel i'm sure quite alot of people will agree with me.
All the best.
2006-08-04 11:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum of solutions... dude you're very youthful. do no longer say that "i'm a student so i are not getting time for something". you have each and all of the time. consume in spite of you go with for to. purely flow exterior in night and play some outdoor video games. especially soccer, Badminton, Cricket etc etc. Play as much as you are able to. Play soccer each and every day for an hour or 2 and you will see the differences.
2016-10-01 11:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think that she is worth it. Anyone who cannot understand how you are feeling or cannot forgive you for something that doesn't even require forgiveness in the first place should just be left alone. If she truely cared for you then she would have been at your side trying to comfort you and make you feel better. Instead she wants to be the centre of attention and is trying to make you suffer for not indulging in her 24/7. Just leave her there, im sure there is someone out there more worthy of your love.
2006-08-08 13:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by haunted_angel85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like the only person she cares about is herself. how long was u with her? u should go and find a nice partner. just totally ignore her. it will bother her in the end. I'm a girl i know how we work. we love it when the bloke does all the running and all the phone calls. if you was to stop all that it would really get to her.
i shouldn't really be telling u the girls way of thinking lol never mind. hope Ur mum is doing OK
take care
love Sarah xx
2006-08-11 00:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had to prove it in all the ways you did, what did she do for you? Wasn't she giving you signs that her feelings weren't the same as yours? Her timing sucks, big time. But I can hardly believe this was the only reason she left you. Also cause you didn't ring her for five days. And if she didn't rang you either I would stop missing her. You obviously didn't need her to get you through your grief, and she obviously didn't want to relieve you from it neither. I wouldn't miss her if I were you. But succes anyway! X
2006-08-12 07:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by kobe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should concentrate on your mam as she is very ill and your ex is been very callous look at it from another point of view if it had been her mam and you had acted so badly she would go mad i would leave it mate you sound like a really nice guy and she dosen't deserve you
take care :)
2006-08-12 08:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by being with your mother. This girl should understand what you went through and should have offered to help. If she can't forgive you for this, then I believe she was just waiting for an opportunity to break up with you because she is possibly interested in someone else.
2006-08-11 17:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think that it is over and you should not continue wasting your time with that. Even if u could make her to forgive u probably she will not forget what happened and if in future u have similar problem again she will break up immediately, it can be stressful. Maybe this means that there was another problem in relationship and she used that situation like an excuse to broke up with u and not to be she the guilty one, sometimes it is hard to broke up and we just wait to have a problem to make it bigger and say goodbye easier.
2006-08-04 12:04:21 · answer #11 · answered by Latino Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋