She is an internet addict, never cleans the house or herself. So when I went to work I hid the cord to computer. I returned home and my car window was busted. She said I had no right to touch her computer. So does this mean I have to put up with her lazy self? I told her I would divorce her...but I cannot afford child support. I only make enough now to pay bills.
2006-08-04 11:40:46 · 12 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well thats weird but not to be mean but your wife needs to get out more an find a job longing enough to keep her off the internet.
2006-08-04 11:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by leihuaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!! Sorry but that is funny...! I can't help it... Maybe you should not have hid it from her...! Are you there for her? Do you show her love or do you criticize her?
And this does not sound like a reason for divorce so are you wanting to bail on her or just upset?
Try to be loving and see if that helps, if you feel like it is worth your effort...
I am sure you are under stress as well but try a different approach to her and see if that helps... Maybe she is missing something and if you talk to her you might find out what it is... â¥
But you really did make me laugh with that opening!! Ha Ha!!! OK you must laugh now too! â¥
2006-08-04 19:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i had the same problem....here what you do....
1). Get a keylogger program (records every keystroke she makes) To find out who she's chatting with...
[ That's how I cought my Ex having WebCam-Sex with an old family friend. ]
2). Talk to a family Lawyer before she has a chance to.
3.) Divorce the lazy ***** while you still have a chance to get rid of her.
Im sorry shes taking advantage of you...Good Luck!
2006-08-04 18:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dan-o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...i read some of your other questions and they all seem to be about your wife and the internet. i think that she may have problems. you need to get her away from the computer. i cant believe that she busted out your car window, that is insane. get rid of the internet connection. or maybe set up some kind of password in order for her to use it. but don't tell her the password.
i hope that everything works out for you...good luck
2006-08-04 18:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need a one-on-one talk. Try to work everything out. Explain to her your point-of-view about this.Threatening to divorce her won't do anything. If you can't work things out, leave for a couple of weeks and she can see what it's like not having you around doing everything. Let her see what it's like. She will never learn if it's not from experience.
2006-08-04 18:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Britney♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1,She is an addict 2,she was pissed off,If you opt for a divorce then see if you can have custody of child it sounds like the computer is getting more attention then your child.Trust in God to give you the right answers.
2006-08-04 18:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit her down and talk to her.. tell her you feel she spends too much time on the internet and you want her to use that time for the house and you...
It was pretty dumb of her to smash the car window because dont you guys share a bank account? that was very childish either way.. wow.
2006-08-04 18:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get your own place, your bills won't be quite as high. Even though you'll have to pay child support it would probably work out about even. Depending on how many kids you have.
2006-08-04 18:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I had an ex wife like that but she was meeting guys on the net.
2006-08-04 18:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by sparks2228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her lazy a** should be put to work. What a b****!! She has internet buddies who get her horny.
2006-08-04 18:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋