I have a boyfriend myself and so does my bf.Her bf is flirting with me should i tell her?
2006-08-04 11:30:37 · 15 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her! If she is your best friend you should tell her and don't flirt back!
2006-08-04 13:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by delfin716 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeh! She's ur mate n deserves 2 no the truth! How wud u lyk it if the same hapened 2 u n ur m8 kept it a secret?When you tell her, make sure its in a private place and bring ice cream and tissues. She might not believe you at first but try to stay calm and tell her how sorry you are. Remember to say you didn't flirt back (im assuming you didn't...) If she is ur best amte she should trust you. This lad sounds like a bit of a player, beware! She'll probably found out sooner or later anyway, and wil hate you for not telling her. She'll thank you in the long run, don't worry. Message me to tell me how it goes :)
2006-08-04 18:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by xxx_beckie_bbe_xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are and how long they've been together. if you're all in high school she probably won't end up marrying this guy so i wouldn't be too worried about it... especially since it could cause her to think you're just jealous and imagining things - which you don't want. if it goes any farther then just casual flirting, or if you're older then high school, then yes you should tell her for sure.
2006-08-04 18:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by hg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her now before their relationship goes any further.
Think of what could happen if she marries this scum bag. If he is really into her, he wouldn't be flirting with you. I think you would want to know if the situation was reversed.
2006-08-04 18:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by doogie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell your friend..if her bf is doing that to you then she deserves better and im sure thats what you want for her..someone better than her current bf..imagine if this was happening to you and if the relationship goes further he might do something worse so you should tell her before he ends up hurting her
2006-08-04 18:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by black_and_pink309 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes friends shud never have secretes in between them exept for sum that dont cocern them but tell her and if she doesnt believe u then she will eventualy find out that u werent lieing and b4 u tell her say u know i wudnt lie to u about this just so she knows ur serius
2006-08-04 18:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by just live 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she deserves to know, if it was your boyfriend flirting with her would you want her to tell you?
2006-08-04 18:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah Piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are any kind of friend then you should tell her because if she finds out then she will think that you secretly wanted him too. Tell her!
2006-08-04 18:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldn`t
u must do it ...... if u love her boyfriend....then u must leave every thing behind u and don`t let the friendship with ur friend fail
2006-08-04 18:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jakky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with flirting. Maybe it is just good fun.
2006-08-04 18:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋