I am seeing this guy for a couple of weeks, we seem to be perfect for each other. We slept together a couple of times and he got sick like having a cold or flu but I am not at all. He start asking me if I have anything- I told him I don't and I really don't. and offer to show him my blood and all anual check up. He said he didn't mean about STD but he asked about flu or other things. . he said he never been this sick before and it is just unfortunate and happened sometimes when two new people get together.Am I thinking too much about this or he thinks I caused the sickness? What should I do, I really like him?
2006-08-04 11:23:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Turn it around - he's sick, not you. Act like you're not sure if you want too much closeness, like you're afraid of getting sick. This should peak his interest. Also, look into the possibility that he's feeling guilty because he got sick from another person! Sometimes people try to transfer the guilt when they're done something they regret. If this is not the case, then yes, you're just too worried because you like the guy. Anyway, any guy who would turn down a girl because of a possible cold he caught from her sounds like an anal-retentive you-know-what. Good luck.
2006-08-04 11:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by El 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being paranoid. He is probably just wanting to know if you are sick. There are a lot of wierd virus' going around right now. I just got sick two week ends in a row a couple of weeks ago. I haven't been that sick in a long time. I am fine now. He will get over it. And probably laugh about even asking you. My husband didn't get sick either and we slept together every night. Don't worry just try to leave him alone until he gets over it. He will probably come and apologize for asking you about it later.
2006-08-04 18:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by teacher1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that his sickness is related to you AT ALL; but it's obvious HE DOES. Now, how are you going to get him to see that is beyond me! This is his problem not yours, but as you really like him, you must try to find a way that indicates that you are currently NOT SICK WITH FLU!! You could try getting an "all clear" certificate from the doctor -even though this seems extreme! Might put his suspicious mind to rest......
2006-08-04 18:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress over it he is probably just being a baby like most of the men i know are when they get sick.He could have gotten the flu from anywhere and if u are not sick then it didnt come from u.
2006-08-04 18:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by ru2tipsy2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you've slept together doesn't mean that you are making him sick. He could have gotten sick from people around him. Comfort him and be strong while he gets better. Most people get pretty short tempered while they are sick, and assume that someone else had to have gotten them sick.
2006-08-04 18:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ellias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have a sickness, than certainly he got it somewhere else, and not from you, tell him to quit complaing and go to the doctor.
2006-08-04 18:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has a cold or the flu..Chill !!
2006-08-04 18:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the creep before you get more involved, this sounds like somenoe I know!
2006-08-04 18:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are worrying too much. you should really be talking to him about this
2006-08-04 18:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Marina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to go to the doctor and be a man...
2006-08-04 18:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋