I mean, he told me that "Oh hell no. we never been and she's just like one of the guys and I cannot see myself being with her. WeLL!!!! come to find out that she was one of the ex. he lied to me about it. I'm mad and dont know what to say to him. What would you say?
2006-08-04 11:22:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you really too jealous? I had a cousin whose ex was extremely jealous (with no reason), he basically forced her to lie about things she would normally never lie about. Of course, dumping him was the right thing to do and that's waht she did over the long-term.
If you sincerely believe you are not too jealous, you have every reason to be mad with him. Talk to him, and tell him how you feel. Make him make it up to you somehow. He should know that if he does things like this, it will have consequences. Good luck.
2006-08-04 12:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by semma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too brief of a summary... but I'll answer anyway. I think you should put this to the side and forget about it. He was looking out for your feelings, you kind of have to look at it in a good way because of that. Choose your battles carefully.
2006-08-04 18:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say calm down..What are you so mad at? The fact that he lied to you or that she is his ex...He was probably trying to avoid going thru this ...Give him a break ..He is with you now right...Get over it and move on
2006-08-04 18:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm jealous because I don't trust you, and I don't trust you because you lie to me. How about you start telling the truth, I start working on my jealousy problem.
2006-08-04 18:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him this, you knew i was going to be or do am being jealous but why did you marry me ??? You knew and plus you lie to me about this. You don't have to lie to me because you knew i was going to be jealous and you shoudln't be seeing ex girlfriend.
2006-08-04 19:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him that it hurt you that he would lie to you and the reason for him lying is not an excuses, he should always tell you the truth. tell him what goes around comes around and if he wants to play hurtful lying games then you will play them too
2006-08-04 18:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he married you and not her. tell him that you don't appreciate it that he lied to you. tell him that you will work on your jealousy issues if he will tell you the truth from now on.
2006-08-04 18:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liar liar pants on fire
2006-08-04 18:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by paulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋