There is this girl at my work I like alot. She is really shy, but I still don't think she likes me at all. I am short (5'-7"), and pretty ugly. I am 43 yrs old and have not been on a date since 1983.
Instead of being nice about it, she tries to make me jealous wih this tall russian guy, and won't ask a simple question like "what's up for the weekend?" Why does she act like this, and should I just ignore her, so I don't get fired?
2006-08-04 11:18:42 · 13 answers · asked by STBJBL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think life is to short and if she turns you down then she turns you down its not the end of the world. Just remember god died for you and he loves you dont give up!
2006-08-04 11:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Theater freak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok look dude, if you are 43 and haven't been out with someone since 83, you have problems. Second, NEVER call yourself ugly. That's your biggest mistake. If you aren't confident in yourself then you are screwed. Tell her that you like her and that you want to take her out sometime. If she says no, pay attention to the way she acts when she says it. If she seems like she is really not interested then move on.
2006-08-04 11:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by swaman33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 11:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I an truley sorry but i have to be brutly honest, she doesnt seem
to be attracted to you, or something would have happened
already. but dont be shy if you cant be with this pretty women
get to know her, you can strike up a convo with her. women
really like conversationalists, someone they can talk to, and by
doing this she will get to know what you are all about, and could
quickly become attracted to you. and by the way she wont ever
talk to you if you dont have any confedience. there is something
really sexy about a man with convidence. just know that you are
always a 10, and if she still doesnt like you then she is missing
out, not you!!!
2006-08-04 11:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Gossip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she knows you like her or she wouldn't be acting the way she is. ignore it. you are bigger and better than that. obviously she isn't the girl for you. please don't quit your job or hang yourself. it isn't worth it. somewhere out there is a girl who will love you reguardless of your looks or height. somewhere out there is a girl who will laugh at your jokes, take notice of you all of the time, ask "what's up for the weekend?" and who will just want to be with you because you are a cool, smart guy that deserves better than to be treated so coldly by a girl who doesn't know what she's missing out on by not going out with you.
go find a girl who will love you for you. you aren't that old. old is 60. you aren't ugly either. it's the heart that matters, not the looks. go find your girl, go to a nice resteraunt, or whatever she wants to do, and forget the chilly, "shy" girl who obviously doesn't want your charming self.
2006-08-04 11:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Blop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this girl doesn't like you very much. maybe that's why she doesn't ask you questions. you should ignore her and keep your job.
also sounds like you have a low self esteem. 5'7" isn't all that short. even if it was, there are a lot of short woman. sometimes we are our own worst critics. your 43 and i'm sure your not ugly. there is a girl out there for you, but this one isn't it. good luck on your search.
2006-08-04 11:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY do you like her? she sounds like a b***ch!! Why don't you try on-line dating, it's really fun, you can take your time getting to know people and actually like each other by the time you meet!! I only say that 'cos it sure worked for me..and now I am married to the LOVE of my life!! So quit wasting your time thinking about superbi**h and go find yourself a NICE woman!! BEST OF LUCK, I'll pray for ya!!
2006-08-04 11:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by perplexed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, Ignore her i hate it when females dont pay attention to me and go to someone else.
What i do is ignore them.
And another thing it would be stupid to kill yourself if a female if taking another man for you so dont do it. Just treat her like she would treat you if she hated you. In a short while you will notice you are not interested in her at all.
2006-08-04 11:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would just ignore her. Is that really the type of person that you would want to be with, she sounds selfish and stuck up, aren't you better than THAT?
2006-08-04 11:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I think this gal's interested! So - reverse her game: act bored, and `couldn't care less' and withdraw from her a bit; and see what happens!! Good luck!
2006-08-04 11:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋