I work with a women who seems to be perfect. She seems to like me too, there is lots of physical contact and flirtatious body language, the only problem is she is married. Its doing my head in.
2006-08-04 11:04:07 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm gonna go for nothing as my answer. A bit of flirting can be fun, but that might be all she's after, and you could really mess things up if you assume something else and you're wrong. Just be friends, and enjoy that.
One thing to bear in mind if you do decide to start something with her: if she's cheated on her current husband with you, what's to say that she won't cheat on you?
2006-08-04 11:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Steve-Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful It hurts to be the other person. I just had an affair. I was the married women. I really want to leave my husband wanted to before the affair even started. But nothing is ever easy especially if there are kids involved. I really love the person I had the affair with and still do. It lasted for 8 months He could no longer wait or stand the rumours. He let me go. I am crushed. I love him deeply. But don't have the courage to leave my family. Or hurt the husband I have now he gave me 13 years He gave me a great lifestyle and great children. . Even though I no longer love him. I feel guilty
Tell her you are attracted to her. Bring up the flirting. Tell her you are interested But make her understand that nothing can happen until she leaves her husband.
2006-08-04 11:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by soo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of girls like that that are married and probably love their husband but she must not be so perfect if she cannot resist temptation. On the other hand you could hit it and quit it because life is short, but at the same time you could be getting yourself into problems if her husband ever found out. At the same time their are alot of flirty girls, girls that probably just flirt and imagine but dont do anything. if you like whats going on just try not to pay her too much attention and see if she is the one making the moves.
2006-08-04 11:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any small problems in your life at the moment they will be one hundred fold if you mess around with this married woman.Her marriage may be a little stale and the flirting is a release to her, it's fun.
Keep her as a colleague and don't let it go any further, think of what she is doing to her husband. Would you like it if the tables were turned?
2006-08-04 11:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better forget about it.
I had the same problem once. There was everything i wanted to have sex with this woman i really liked and i knew she would have accepted me if i asked her for anything but i didnt let it happen, Till she left the place i knew her and i never saw her again.
Just find a solution that can take your mind away from her.
+ How will you feel if the woman or your girlfriend you love so much cheated on you?
Hahahahahahaha twinkle good one.
2006-08-04 11:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave this alone. Not only because you could get hurt emotionally, but physically as well. If I were you I would pay more attention to the job I was doing and less attention on my hormones. Do you really want to get involved with someone who would be with you behind someone elses back?
2006-08-04 11:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by belinda f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. Married folk flirt too. Sometimes they feel more confident flirting because they are married. They figure you'll know it's only flirting and nothing serious because you know they are married. I think you might be mis-interpreting the signals. Beside, what if you were that woman's husband? Wouldn't you like to strangle the man that skrewed your wife?
2006-08-04 11:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, boy... it is so normal to have sexual feelings and attractions for others, and we ladies can be very guilty of flirting even when we are married. It's not so great that we do that, but we're not always perfect.
So maybe try to set some limits on this friendship but then do something that might lead to meeting a new lady. Ask friends if they know someone to introduce you to. (I am assuming you are single.)
Best wishes-
from a grandma-aged person
2006-08-04 11:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there. Not only can you lose your job but you can ruin lives. Isn't there other people out there. And dude remember this "Those who fool around with you, will fool around on you."
If this is just a booty call and she is a skank by all means do what you want.
But if your looking for love, just do your job and I know someone great is going to come in your life soon.
2006-08-04 11:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by lajefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with accepting you have feelings for each other - its natural after all. Its up to you though to make the first move. If she starts to flirt, dont get involved. Just act like a normal friend.
2006-08-04 11:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋