My lover and I had an arguement and I haven't spoken with him in weeks. I miss him so much and often think about him. Mutal friends have indicated that he gave them the impression that we are still together; just that he hasn't spoken with me in a while. I've met someone new and we share a mutal attraction for each other. My heart is doing flip-flops and I'm not sure who its really for.
2006-08-04 10:52:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You need to figure it out soon or else you probably will lose both of them. Make a gut decision and see where it leads, but be careful to throw away what you and your ex had before the argument. Try and reconcile or just put it behind you, but don't let it nag you like that. It's not healthy.
2006-08-04 13:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Falcon Boy Toy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real question is why did you breakup or argue with your ex boyfriend in the first place? How long have you not spoken with each other? Why do you want him back? Whose the new guy, and what's special about him? Perhaps the new guy is the real and only reason why your heart is doing flip-flops.
2006-08-04 18:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never start something with having unfinished business. You'll end up braking someones heart. If you are not dealing with your ex-because you are being stubborn, shame on you. If you think the grass is greener on the other side with this new stud, remember you don't know him past the attraction. Love takes work, If you know it just wont work out with your ex= then proceed.
2006-08-04 18:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't try to juggle the two at the same time
try to heal what you have with your "EX" before continuing with your new stud...i'm sure that your new flame will respect you for not trying to juggle two relationships at the same time
good luck!
2006-08-04 17:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋