her parents don't know yet and she isn't planning on telling them...her grandma knows and will take her to get an abortion. my friend isn't sure if she should get an abortion or just keep it but if she did the child would trun out real bad. what should i tell her. the baby is alos half black and her parents are rasist. her boyfriend left her and she is now all alone. thats why she isn't telling anyone
2006-08-04 10:43:53 · 17 answers · asked by Ciera baby* 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well this what u do be supportive with her.... Even though it might seem like ur telling her something wrong because ur not in her situation. So her parents are racist, sooner or later they are gonna find out that she is pregnant so they might as well get over that. It doesn't matter that they don't like black people that's still there grandchild. I think she should have the baby and of she thinks that its going to ruin her life then give it up for adoption not abortion
2006-08-04 10:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by capricorn314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im willing to bet that if her parents knew, they would want her to have her baby instead of killing it. Like the other person said, its their grandchild, they will love it no matter what. Ive been in the same situation and had an abortion. It is not the answer. Tell her to be a hero and choose adoption if she and her parents decide they dont want the baby. Its the hardest thing in the world, but nothing more loving than giving her baby to a wonderful childless couple to nurture and love. And she gets to pick the family and be involved.
2006-08-04 12:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a mother and Im 16 years old.
The only thing you can do is be suppotive, and be there when she needs you, I mean you are her friend, right.
It's not easy being a mother, cuz I got pregnant when I was 15, so she is really going to need someone to be there for her. Well I got my mom, and the baby daddy mama, too. And my freinds, which are his relatives, soo. I really dont know if she go that but still support her. My baby is still in the hospital hes 3 week old.
2006-08-04 14:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an abortion right away!!!!!!! If she waits longer the harder it will be for her. Be supportive!!!!! She's still in school and it will be hard for her to take care of the kid. She can't a job to support the kid because she's too young. So abortions is the best option right now, for her.
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2016-09-28 22:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get an abortion, if u live in California she doesn't have to tell anyone, u and her can go! my email is astinhenry@yahoo.com I'll be happy to answer any of her questions about having an abortion.
2006-08-04 10:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no shes to young to be a mom, its not easy, im not saying she should get an abortion but adoption is a good option for her
2006-08-04 10:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about telling her parents. Give her any support you can. Be there for her when she needs it. That's the best advice I can give you.
2006-08-04 10:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by ellaynrihan1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does she want to have a baby, that was stupid to have sex with a bf that is careless, let her get abortion.
2006-08-04 10:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the fue
get and abortion and tell her bf that she is pregnant
and tell her parents to STOP BEING RASIST
2006-08-04 12:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by the four faced master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋