My boyfreind who shall be nameless cheated on me with his old freind and I what him to play. This is because I really loved him and I don't know what to do.
2006-08-04 10:22:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sell his stuff on ebay.
2006-08-04 10:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is understandable to want to hurt someone who has hurt you.....we all think spitefully at times like this. It is bad karma to ACT spitefully, however, plus, it gives him your self-comtrol. Do not waste the energy on doing anything spiteful.
You want closure? Being mean to him will not give it to you, and only make you feel temporarily better. Later on, you will feel dumb for allowing yourself to be so mean.....
Best way to get over it: Forgive HIM for his shortcomings. Guys only cheat because they feel like an inadequate loser, a disappointment to their lover, and afraid to fix the problem, and also to get back at their lover for "making" them feel emasculated.
Cheating is a defense mechanism that says "I can't tell you what's wrong because that's too scary...I don't feel like I am the man with you.....here is this girl who doesn't know what a disappointment I am..."
The way people treat others is a reflection of how they feel about themselves. You need to forgive him for being a loser. He can't help it. Does that make you feel better? Let go of the pain and find someone who has some integrity, and deserves your energy.
2006-08-04 17:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat on him and then inform him that you were with someone with a real size penis and made you realize what you were missing -- tell him you came 5 times an hour
tell him in private -- if you do it in public people will think it is just for show -- if you do it in private then it will get into his mind and drive him crazy
2006-08-04 17:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by lyk2lik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the high road and simply walk away.
Revenge may have an initial sweetness to it, but in the long run, it will get you nowhere.
2006-08-04 17:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Empire Jetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that girl that he has herpies and now she has it too. That will make her rush to the gyno and have a test done costing her money for it.
2006-08-04 17:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if he cheats on you then you are not impotent to him even if he Tell's you that you are, and if you're that important to him then why did he cheat on you in the first place? you have to ask your self that "why would he do that, what made him think about cheating"
2006-08-04 17:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him for a while, then tell him, inform him that the other guy is way better, and dump his *** in front of his friends
2006-08-04 17:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way is just to break up with him and live a happy life.
2006-08-04 17:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question as I am going through the same ordeal. interested in what kind of replies you receive.
LIVE BETTER THAN HE IS LIVING!
2006-08-04 17:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by dawnsakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres a great idea. I tell all my friends to do this, it works every time.
LEAVE HIS ***!!!
Try that.
2006-08-04 17:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya give his friend a bj , then ya toss him out of a moving car
2006-08-04 17:30:31 · answer #11 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋