I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year ..I lost my virginity to him 10 months ago and for the past 10 months we have been having un-protected s3x.. Anyways I just found out I am pregnant but I'm not sure the best way to tell him, I know he will not be mad & will be there for me I just don't want to totally shock him!! PLEASE HELP!!
2006-08-04 10:15:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
why would it be a shock if you two are stupid enough to have unprotected sex... you had to know at sometime you would get pregnant.. that poor innocent baby
2006-08-04 10:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by michelle_az_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before telling him, you should tell your parents first. If you feel scared, go to a planned parenthood center, and they can help and give you suggestions. After you tell your parents, then, as a group, you could set a day with him and his parents to tell them the news and where to go from there. The important thing is to act responsible. There will be many tears shed, but things will all work out in the end. This is a life changing moment. Hopefully you will have the support of both families and they can help you out anyway they can so you can get a job (if you don't have one) and finish school. If you feel that you can not take care of the child, think of the idea of adoption. Many families can not have children and would love a sweet bebe.
I hoped I helped you! =)
2006-08-04 10:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By telling him if he has what it takes to have sex then he should be responsible enough take whats coming on. Plus its take 2 for anything. If he backs up (like they normally do) then with all the respect dont have that kid. You are only 16 yrs old you are just starting life. Thats the mistake many young girls do they meet a boy they think they are in love and its true love they have kid and then the guy leaves. Good luck and best wishes!!
2006-08-04 10:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i first found out i was pregnant i told my boyfriend that i havent gotten my period yet. then we'd wait hoping i did but we also talked about if i dont. he understood me and stayed with me. im pretty sure if your boyfriend is understanding enough youll make the right choice. it was kinda funny too because i had bad morning sickness and when i finally told him, he said no wonder i felt sick too! he had the sympathy pains too. i became pregnant when we were 18. and after 11yrs were married. i believe you both can manage. congratulations i know i shouldnt be praising you for that but your going to have a baby. be responsible and take care and dont leave school, learn as much you can.
2006-08-04 10:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by ???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i guess you really have to ask yourself first what you want to do w/ the baby. abortion? or keep it? adoption? if you are sure of what YOU want to do, start out w/ something like telling him that you have been together for so long, you you both have always been supportive of the other. and tell him that you need his support more than ever now. you really need to tell him, but more importantly, tell someone who can help you. your parents (or just mom for starters), the school nurse, planned parenthood. just start taking steps to insure that you will be ok when you have to make a choice. best of luck, and from now on, be safe!
2006-08-04 10:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by lady of the piano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well make sure your really pregnant first (sometimes a female is late, etc). Then tell him ASAP, he needs to know so you two can decide what to do next and discuss the baby and ya'lls future, etc. Always use a condom because you just never know!
2006-08-04 10:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by PrincessShine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have had unprotected sex. You are in for a serious life change! Just simply tell him you are pregnant. Do your parents know? I hope you will be prepared to take full responsibility for your actions because motherhood at your age will not be easy.
2006-08-04 10:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u guys shouldnt be having unprotected sex. this is what happens. u shoulda been more cautious u are only 16. theres a whole life ahead of ya. u are gonna have to tell him though. hes gonna be shocked. theres nothing u can do about that. if he truly loves u he'll be there for u.
2006-08-04 10:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by jay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him...since you were not too scared to have unprotected sex with the boy...man you kids are just too young to be having kids. There goes your teen years all down the drain. Hope you are ready for the adult life.
2006-08-04 11:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and gently tell him.
You have to let him know not all of this will fall on him.
That you will help him with this but he needs you there for him.
I hope this helps
2006-08-04 10:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by fatwhale90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋