Do you tell them details or do you keep your love life to yourself .Would you be angry if you found out that your
spouse/bf/gf had told friends?
2006-08-04 10:05:52 · 16 answers · asked by Yakuza 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I feel it's a private matter, best kept to one's self. It betrays the confidence of the partner. Some folks, especially men, like to brag, but women do it too. Others complain, and they should be talking to counselors, not their friends.
I have never found myself in the situation where my spouse had told anyone about our love life, so I can't honestly say how I'd feel. I guess I would be embarassed and betrayed -- talk about airing your dirty laundry -- but if someone has done this to you, I'd have a talk with him or her.
2006-08-04 10:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i've had to tell people that just because i didn't go along with what everyone else was doing didn't make me antisocial. it made me smart enough to know that jumping off some bridge because of peer pressure wasn't something i choose to do. it was at times very hard to explain to other teenagers this point and i often wondered how far some of them would go to fit a mold that wasn't meant for them. the only times i have had cause for violence was when i needed to protect myself and/or others. i have found that words can diffuse many situations where a fist would only escalate them. not that i didn't find myself in situations were words were useless but it was rare.
2016-03-26 23:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some advice, i had trusted two of X best friends that i knew for 25 years with things like that.. i realize that it causes problem i would never do it again. my relationship i was in lasted 8 years and it never worked out because they both slept with my man....and were very jealous...now i have been in a relationship for 4 years with someone else and don't tell my friends **** and i have a good relationship..
2006-08-04 10:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't be mad. I just don't want to be around to hear about it.
I had a friend who asked me about my sex life before. I think she wanted to get in on it! I was to stupid to figure that out at the time. If I recognized it then I would have.
2006-08-04 10:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and yes I told the details. I would only be angry if what my spouse said was negative and degrading. If it was all good then I would be all good.
2006-08-04 10:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by msriss24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I told my best gf about my husband and one thing lead to another and so she joined us to see if I was telling the truth. Of which she promptly agreed.
2006-08-04 10:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No show a little respect for the other individual
2006-08-04 10:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but I don't go into details.
2006-08-04 10:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When all went camping, they ALL knew what good lovers we were. No gossip required, just amazement!!
2006-08-04 10:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but vaguely gave details
2006-08-04 10:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by Who me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋