2006-08-04 10:05:27 · 13 answers · asked by shadi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i think u should start in palestine then if it didnt work just wait and trust u'll find her without expecting it lol.marriage isnt good at all 4 u 2 b waiting 4 it trust me.
2006-08-04 10:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by amable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to DO is to define , in writing , what this question means to you. What are the ideal traits you are looking for in a woman, mate, spouse? Loyalty? Then you write : " The woman of my dreams is always loyal to me. She will stick by me and stand up in my honor, always."
Faithful? Then it is: "the woman of my ideals, will love only me, first, (next to God, that is) and will have complete confidence that I will love her in return, compounded and multiplied." Or, whatever phrasing says the thing you mean. Just write it in the Affirmative or the Positive! Never the negative.
Think of it as giving directions to your Brain.
You are going thru a process of programming your brain to recognize what you are looking for (just in case your attention is "out to lunch" at the moment) so you can get what you are telling it you want!
So, make a list,
Be specific!
As specific as you want!
When you think of a new something like, Oh, I lvoe Aunt Betty's apple pie, then you can add..."The girl of my dreams loves to cook, and willingly makes me Aunt Betty's Apple Pie recipe!"
(Be sure you have it on hand!)
out of 50...you may find someone who has 25 of the best traits, or even 40 or...yes! MY list for me written by my best fella had 37 things on it, and I filled ALL except one thing, I did not play the violin, but I played the guitar!!!!
So, I know this works, for we had both made a list and he fit everything except being a lover of antiques, he preferred Danish modern and new new furniture.
Why?
Because I had left that off my list!!!!
Give it a go , if you are serious, and keep it a secret to yourself alone--don't advertise it about, there is power in knowing what you want so you will know what you want when you find it.
Or , HER, in this case!!!
Good Luck and you might try match.com or one of those sites. some folks have amazing results!!!
2006-08-04 17:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a nice true friend who can introduce you to a nice true woman. Or try one of the many nice true dating services available, online or otherwise.
2006-08-04 17:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get her from God. Pray and make known to God the desire of your heart. And then let him bring this woman into your life. Because when we go out trying to find someone on our own, who knows what kind of mess we are getting ourselves into. But, the thing about God is that he loves us so much that he only wants to see us happy. Therefore, the woman He has for you will be a perfect match.
2006-08-04 17:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking! Notice when you look for something and the moment you stop looking for it to find something else, you find what you were looking for in the first place!
Love comes from above, you cant rush it! It will come to you! :)
2006-08-04 17:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us good woman are married to losers.
2006-08-04 17:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like willhemina's answer. The truth is, when you are least thinking about it, there she will be, staring you straight in the eyes.
2006-08-04 19:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man - if and when you do please let me know. That's the question of the decade for me.
2006-08-04 17:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Bogie Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can email me if you want to.
2006-08-04 17:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change ur name
2006-08-04 17:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by canibus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋