I am married to a wonderful woman and we have a good open relationship and very active sex lives (swingers)..... she's almost as kinky as I am, maybe more in some areas. How can I get her to indulge in some fantasy play with me.
2006-08-04 10:05:03 · 27 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well you said yourself you two have a very open relationship, then it should be no problem to just sit and talk to her about your fantasies, obviously you two enjoy each other very much and that is wonderful... good luck
2006-08-04 11:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_girl200501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her on a surprise shopping trip. Make sure you stop in at a kinky fashion place and pick up something new and exciting for her to wear. Each shop has dvd movies too, which will entice her to do something in role playing with you.
I suggest a nice classy latex dress for her from you. Buy some handcuffs too and a nice collar for her as well. She will love that.
2006-08-04 17:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you are asking dude. It seems that you guys are already swingers, and she is more kinky that you. Then what is the PROBLEM?
2006-08-04 17:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seduce her! It seems you would know what turns her on. Act out a fantasy of hers in real life and then ask her to return the favor. More than likely she'll like it.
2006-08-04 17:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bogie Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just set up a room in your home in your fantasy theme. Then greet her at the door all done up in your own costume and give her costume (gift-wrapped, of course). Tell her to put it on, then lead her to your fantasy room. I'll bet she jumps right in (or on)!
2006-08-04 18:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask what she thinks about it, as if you had heard it somewhere and were wondering about it. Her answer will tell you whether to ask her to participate. If she doesn't want to, don't go elsewhere for it cause you may like it elsewhere and it would be the end of the marriage
2006-08-04 17:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with everyone else, hon...given that you're swingers, I don't see how she would possibly object. Just ask her. Or if you're nervous, ask her to tell you what hers is (if she hasn't already), maybe during foreplay or something.
2006-08-04 17:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say what you want to say...by your description of her, doesn't sound like she will be upset, shocked or whatever.
Go for it. Of course if this fantasy is way out to lunch, you might have some resistance...but never know til you try.
Good luck
2006-08-04 17:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way is to ask her!!! Most woman would love it if their man talked to them about sex and play
2006-08-04 17:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by wildladyreba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have got her doing quite a bit, dont look a gift horse in the mouth!
2006-08-04 17:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋