There's this guy at my job who has started coming by my office talking to me. The first time he came by I didn't think any thing of it. I just thought he was friendly and I'm always friendly with people and I talk to everybody. Now he comes by and says he wants us to be boyfriend and girlfriend and he hugs and kisses me all the time. At first I thought it was funny, but now it's starting to make me uncomfortable. I think he's a nice man but I'm not interested in him like that. He asks me if I love him I don't even know him. He wants to come by my house and he thinks I will be in love with him. I keep trying to tell him I will be his friend and talk to him at work but it's not working. Maybe he doesn't understand me since he doesn't speak english well. I don't know. What should I do.
2006-08-04 10:04:28 · 3 answers · asked by nikki_1622 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmmmm.....the language barrier is a hard thing to deal with. but u really need to make it clear to him that u dont have the same feelings for him that he has for u. its a very hard thing to do because no one wants to hurt anyone elses feelings. but ive done it before and its not as hard as it seems. just say to him "i know u have feelings for me, but i just dont feel the same and i have to be honest with u and myself. i would be lying if i said i love u." hopefully this works for u and everything turns out fine for u.
2006-08-04 10:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you do not date people you work with.
2006-08-04 10:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the plain truth .
2006-08-04 10:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋