we work together and he hits me on the @$$ more than once,i told him stop but he won't should i bring this up with my bf?
2006-08-04 09:57:02 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
btw he is my boss i should of state that before
2006-08-04 10:01:46 · update #1
Don't even tell ur boyfriend...it will only cause a huge problem. Handel it professionally. This is happening at your job, right? Go to your boss...not just an assistant manager or a manager...your actual boss. You could actually try your Human Resources person as well. Nip it in the butt now so that it doesn't become an at home as well as personal issue between your bf and cousin.
2006-08-04 10:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hmm...
Since this is in the workplace, it's actually illegal, it's called sexual harassment in the workplace. I'm sure you don't want to call the cops on him or anything, so I would bring this up to your boss first. This could handle the situation very quickly if he's in danger of getting fired.
If that doesn't work, I would talk to your boyfriend about it. I would try to keep him out of it as long as possible, because it could cause a big rift between the family. Tell your boyfriend that it makes you really uncomfortable, and to help you approach the cousin calmly to fix the problem.
Good luck hun!
2006-08-04 10:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by cutiewithabooooty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it quite is very unethical or immoral act which you have accomplished on your cousin. permit her marry yet another guy of 30 or 32 years and enjoy her existence with him. you're 19 years basically and are not meant view your 28 year previous cousin with such an eye fixed. For non everlasting excitement you the two are going to ruin the finished existence finally. Now it would desire to be a excitement for the two certainly one of you, yet you the two will land up in issue in long-term. you may not have a sturdy married existence once you attain the age of 28 or 30 years of age. in addition your divorced cousin will ruin her call and he or she would be able to be with in charge information continuously. So decrease out this theory out of your ideas and lead your ideas interior the properly suited path by using using your ideas. you at the instant are not an animal who can not use ideas and do the properly suited subject like a civilized guy or woman.
2016-12-11 06:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely tell your boyfriend. You've already tried to handle it on your own (which is what I would expect from my girlfriend) without success. That's just wrong especially since he is related to your boyfriend. Maybe try smacking him in the face next time or tell your boss. That type of thing usually isn't tolerated at one's place of employment.
2006-08-04 10:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bogie Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you work together, report it to your supervisor. If he gets talked to about it at work then the behavior should stop. I'd try that first and talk to your boyfriend about it if the cousin still doesn't ge tthe hint. Remember that boyfriends can be jealous and irrational, and while you do want to fix the problem, you don't want to deal with anything getting blown out of proportion on top of everything else.
2006-08-04 10:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by jax 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before you bring it up with your bf just kick him between his legs the next time he smacks you and by this you'll rid your bf of the need to fight with his buggeri'n cousin.
2006-08-04 10:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him doing that, he needs to stop. Tell your Boyfriend, and he will probably take care of the rest. But if you feel uncomfortable with telling him, smack that one dude in the face the next time he does it!
2006-08-04 10:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At work you should bring this up to your boss,tell him you are going to and that you are going to tell your bf,do not allow harassment and be sure you are not responsible for his actions.Good Luck
2006-08-04 10:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should bring it up with your bf and let him know you don't like it , so that he can handle his cousin. Even if it means them getting into it because his cousin is wrong.
2006-08-04 10:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by Redbuddafly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just flirting. leave it alone if u aint gonna sleep with him why should u tell ur bf? it would just cause them problems with eachother and then the cuz-o wont like u anymore and problems with ur bfs family isnt always a plus. or u can just tell ur bf and tell him to make it stop in a very nice and polite manner,
2006-08-04 10:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋