Why does breaking up with someone hurts so much and what to do with the pain?

Answer 1

Remember that song breaking up is hard to do? It always hurts but you know the break up happens for a reason whether it is your decision, a mutual one, or theirs....just being that there is enough there to want to end it, has to give some sort of hope that the pain will slowly fade and perhaps your next partner will not share that same quality. Try having one really good cry (believe it or not tears can help, after all a flower doesn't grow without rain) and then telling yourself that it is just time to move on and get rid of all of the reminders and surround yourself with family, friends, and new people...keeping yourself occupied will really do the trick. Good Luck

Answer 2

There ain't much you can do about the pain baby, just remember this "Only time can mend a broken heart", but you will be alright, good luck babe.

Answer 3

WELL IT HURTS BECAUSE YOU WERE VERY INTIMATE WITH THIS PERSON, CLOSE AND EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER IT? REDECORATE YOUR BEDROOM. PAINT IT- BUY NEW CURTAINS AND BEDSPREADS... GET SOME BLACKLIGHTS AND MIRRORS. MAKE YOURSELF FEEL SEXY AGAIN. GET A NEW HAIRSTYLE, NEW CLOTHES SHOES ETC... MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE A BETTER PERSON AND ALSO BOOSTS YOUR CONFIDENCE. ALSO REMEMBER NOT TO BLAME YOURSELF. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT HES A DUD. DONT TRY CHASING HIM DOWN EITHER. USUSALLY THEY END UP MISSING YOU AND CALLING YOU- ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY SEE THAT YOU SO EASILY GO ON ABOUT YOUR LIFE WITHOUT THEM... GOOD LUCK!