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2006-08-04 09:41:54 · 15 answers · asked by imain m 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
It's a tough thing to be somewhere other than where you wanna be. Chances are, though, you're there for a reason. Focus on that reason. If it's truly good enough to keep you where you are, put your all into it and do it right. If it's not, chances are, there is an option to make that reason no longer a driving force. It may not be pleasant (quitting a job, breaking up with a love, etc), but if home is more important, you need to go.
2006-08-04 09:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Woz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving isn't always what people expect, or unexpected things may happen. If this is familiar, then you are not the only person feeling like this - it just seems that way.
Because discomfort rarely shows on the surface, it is likely other people imagine that everything is easy and fun for you, too. It may be hard to deal with this - you don't want to worry family and friends back home, and here you may not have people around you who you know well enough.
If you are not as comfortable or happy as you think you should be, you are not alone. If you feel a bit lost and are missing home, seeking out a person from the same place as you might help. Try logging into a chat room for persons from your country. There are several on Yahoo and AOL. You can also post a "looking for Friends" classified ad on most sites like 360, Myspace and Penpals.com. Try them out and it might help. Best wishes and good luck on your new future! I am sure it will be a bright one!
2006-08-04 16:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by buford_bargain_hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elaborate! Why are you not where you consider your home (country). Do you have a choice? It is natural for most people to miss their family and home, for whatever reason, but sometimes we must do what we must do.Give yourself some time, keep in touch, and make the best of it if it has to be, and decide whether or not you really have to be away and whether or not you are making your own decisions about what is best for you. Good luck.
2006-08-04 16:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by cstudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see you received a number of very rude answers. Do not let that get you down.
The task ahead of you is a difficult one and sure is going to take some time to adopt to.
Let me know where your from, maybe we can email from time to time.
Here's wishing you the best of luck and may everything work out for you.
contact me at pomdoepol@yahoo.com
2006-08-04 16:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you have left them and are making this sacrifice for them should make you more strong, .....think about it now your children would have better life ......like son going to a college , daughter getting married in the way you wanted and a nice house for your wife , cheer up to win some you have to loose some
2006-08-04 16:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Success & Money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in England now and whining about your home then all I can say is f*** off back there... I've had a whining foreigner in my house for years and it's the best solution.
2006-08-04 16:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by engineer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you probalbly feel that you belong there since that is origins. Why don't you go out and meet some people, because keeping your mind off it can really help. by the way, where are you from, and where are you now?
2006-08-04 16:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by lifeisblah13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call them.text (send sms) them. email them (with voice and camera).
have a journal.
im also not with my family right now due to work reasons. give yourself time. you would be able to adjust when time comes. for now, keep yourself busy.
2006-08-04 16:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by jedi_rei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get into some extracurricular activities that you enjoy such as sports or volunteering. they will help you pass the time here as well as make friends
2006-08-04 16:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Marina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwhoney dont be sad, think of how much ul appreicate seeing them wen ur return, be happy enjoy urself and ull enjoy seeing them soo much more too! happiness is there to be enjoyed
2006-08-04 16:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋