ok i have been talking to this guy online and....?

Question

and i kinda well like him but he is 17 and im 12.... is that wrong

Answer 1

yessssssssssssssssssssssssss...im sorry but he's too old and he could be trying to rape u...

Answer 2

yes way 2 old first its wrong because u meet him on the internet i hope u didnt give him any personal nfo and 4 u 2 be 12 and him 2 be 17 u must have lied about ur age which is not good he is way 2 mature 4 u and provly very experienced be careful find some 1 ya own age....he might not evenn be 17

Answer 3

I dont even begin to understand how a 12 year old girl can begin to relate to a 17 year old boy. You barely lived 2 days to his 3.

Would you consider dating someone who lived only 2 days to your 3? That would make him 8, BTW.

If you would, you are doomed anyway so do whatever you want.

For that matter just because you are asking you are probably doomed anyway, but that doesnt mean you have to have your life effectively end this prematurely.

The only way you should be dating anyone 17 is if you are at least 15.5 preferrably north of that. Even that is stretching it.

Answer 4

I'm not some old fart conservatively speaking and trying to ruin your fun when I say what I'm going to say - please remember that. I'm only 24 and have been using the net since I was in high school. Here's my take.

Talking on the internet can be entertaining and fun, and really useful to talk to friends and family that live far away. BUT and it's a BIG BUT...you shouldn't talk to people you don't know on IM regularly. Don't build relationships with people you haven't met in person. It's VERY dangerous. I can't stress it enough. Even if you don't meet some freaky predator who wants to r.a.pe. and strangle you, there a good chance the person is at least lying to you about who they are, what they are, and where they are. I learned this firsthand by watching my ex work girls on the internet. I installed a keylogger and read all the crapola he fed 20 different girls in one week...and most these sorry girls BELIEVED him!! And kept talking to him. Two of them actually called him their fiance and seemed to think he was coming to be and live with them. He wasn't. Here's the even bigger shocker: both those girls turned out to be big fat liars themselves. It's ridiculous how people seem to think that just b/c it's internet that gives them the right and privilege to lie their tushies off.

I also learned this myself, I went on a couple dates with guys I met online. Both lied about themselves in some way or another. You can not build a truly intimate relationship through a medium where they can makeup entire stories about their life, including fake pics of themselves. Stick to guys where you live. Once you establish a relationship with them, THEN use IM to help keep in touch. Now I only talk to people I know through my instant messenger. Especially never allow guys to talk to you who say they saw your pic on your profile, they're only after getting off from what you say.

Be careful...
As for the age thing, later in life it wouldn't be that big a deal, but those particular ages make you lightyears different. 12, that's middle school, right? Versus 17 which is almost out of high schoool. You can't even drive, but he can drive, almost smoke and get married and in some states almost old enough to drink and gamble! BIG difference in life experience, and, most likely, a teenage guy seeking a girl that young has something going on that youdon't want to get involved with, b/c he should be more attracted to girls his own age, who're more developed and going through the same things he is. I'm sure you're saying to yourself, "But I'm very mature for my age" and that may be true, but there's still a large difference between 12 and 17.

Answer 5

Listen ur 12 you shouldnt even be talking to guys ok I am 22 and i was just raped tuesday night and if you coutine talking to men at this age its going to happen to you i think you really should stay off the com ok go be a kid stop trying to be an adult

Answer 6

How can you trust someone over the Internet? Haven't you watched dateline? This could be a 40 yr old man who's a perve or something try meeting boys at school or something.

Answer 7

as long as you guys are talking, and not doing anything other than that, then i guess its fine as long as he is really seventeen and not thirty posing as a seventeen year old. just as long as he is not a jerk and you guys don't try to meet up, because he might not be who you think he is. i think it is totally fine to have older friends that are guys, because half the time they aren't like the jerks your own age, they are older and more mature. especially if you have an older mentality, you are able to connect better with older people, so i guess this is fine. many times i get along great with my older sisters friends. but it is also good that you have friends your own age. its totally fine that you would like him. you probably like him because he is not like the boys your age that are idiots. i have always liked guys that are older than me. they are more interesting and smarter than the guys my age. just be careful with the guys you talk to online. you can never really know who they are because they are over the internet and they can be very different from what they say they really are. and it is not illegal, like the other lady said, if he is really 17 then that is legal, as long as he is not older than 18 its fine. but just don't announce it when he gets older, he could get in trouble if you guys are more than just friends.

Answer 8

Where r u from that u think its ok2 do that.U don't mnow the guy and he could be lyin about his ageand if u meet he could probabilly rape u.Stick 2 someone who is in ur town.Ur 2 young 4 that.Find a boy u Know.Thats what i do.

Answer 9

yeah it might sound wrong, but just be careful. you never know who you are talking to. he might be reluctant to ask you out be cause you are so much younger than him. just be careful. if you ever go to meet him take someone with you. maybe like another guy that won't judge you but can protect you.

Answer 10

...mab..NEVR, hes probabblly sum 40 yr old guy whos bald, and a cat potato and a beer belly, an is trying to rape you!so NO!
Unless u really relally really Trust this guy BUT DONT NEVER EVER NEVER Meet this Guy oks!

Answer 11

I wouldn't talk to some guy online that you haven't met, just my opinion.