this kid in high school wanted 2 be a reall har *** and attacked me. so i was kicking his *** and he pulled a knife and stapped me. i ended up almost dying. but after he stapped me i smashed both of his eyes in self defense blinding him for life. now every one is afraid i am going 2 hurt them. how can i stop this?
2006-08-04 09:13:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry i have 2 look aat my hands when i type and its not like bad things like this never happen
2006-08-04 09:18:55 · update #1
Smile more. Offer people gum or breath freshners. Laugh more
2006-08-04 09:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on to another school (or state or county or even country) may be required. In all honesty if you where stabbed and are weak because of that maybe you are better there where people will not screw with you until you are better. How bad was the brain damage btw, because you have trouble forming word, either that or you are having fun yanking our collective chains
2006-08-04 09:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o wow.....well for starters try not to blind anyone else....but just be as friendly as you can be i had the same problem but it wasnt like i did as much damage as you did, but everyone was scared of me for a while cause of the places i hung out the friends that i had and the stories that they heard. But i was just nice to everyone and they soon realised that there was no reason to be scared. Start small like hold the door open for someone. If someone drops somethign pick it up for them. AND ALWAYS SMILE
and dont listen to the people who are teling you too move....that wont solve anything cause eventually someone will find out anyway.....seriously you can get in contact with anyone in the world through a chain of 6 people, its true....
2006-08-04 09:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by luvins4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have alot of work to do to prove yourself to your class mates. The first thing you should do is try and keep your temper under control. I understand that you were defending yourself and that he had a knife and stabbed you. Were the police involved, was there an investigation? If so what was the outcome of it? All anyone can do that has made a mistake is try to improve themselves.
2006-08-04 09:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well eveyone should know that you were just defending yourself but damn.......Just try to show people that don't know u the good side of u. Let them know that it is not all bad what could you do in that situation someone stabbed you, come on now if he went blind or whatever the case may be he deserved it he didn't have to do that.
2006-08-04 09:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Bri-Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. There are people out there who wanna be your friend. Trust me... and they won't be afraid of you. I have a question for you: YOU didn't get into trouble for blinding him did u? Cuz it wouldn't be right if you REALLY did it in selfdefense. Self defensive "violence" is legal I've heard. Good luck, and if all else fails, you can find friends on the best website in the world "Yahoo." Trust me, online ppl can be ur friends too...
2006-08-04 09:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cathryn E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to show people that you're not the bully they think you are. If you explain that you were defending yourself (show them the scars from the knifing) they might come around. If may take awhile, but with patience and time everything will work out for the best.
2006-08-04 09:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by DragonL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile often - say wuts up to people in the hallway. Maybe join new groups in school. Just be friendly to everyone and people will see that it was self defense.
I have been in ur situation, not so violent but I whooped on some broad for talking $hit and she ended up in a concussion. But I just made myself talk to more people and everyone saw that I was real cool until they disrespected me.....
2006-08-04 09:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you must tell everybody in your school why you have do this for that guy and what he has do for you to make you do this thing they will understand but if they didn't that mean they don't want to be near you or they don't want to make with a relationship from the frist befroe anything happen and if they don't understan bcoz the seconed reason you shouldn't care about them and i am sorry if i say something wrong
2006-08-04 09:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to keep people from being afraid of u is by doing a lot of nice things for others and show that u r a nice person.
2006-08-04 09:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kaiesha C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does being stapped hurt more than being stabbed?
2006-08-04 09:16:53 · answer #11 · answered by Stryker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋