I'v been trying to find a girl for me...I go to a private school so there arnt any lesbians (accept me) and i try to hook up over the internet, but it never works out...what should i do??
2006-08-04 09:10:40 · 21 answers · asked by alexfashing 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
there are lesbians in ur school they just not out trust me. when i was in high school i felt the same way then i graduated and found out half the school was gay. If there is a gay and lesbain center around u go there to meet other gays and lesbians. Also dont be so pressed to find a girl cuz when u look u dont find. it is when u not looking when u find people.
2006-08-04 09:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by lowkey616 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to hunt down lesbians in your area via the internet. Find a GLBT group in your area. PFLAG's website may help.
And if you're 18 and can get into the clubs and bars, there's always that way of meeting people. Yet again, the internet can be usefull in tracking down others.
And I'm sure there are lesbians at your school, they're just not out for whatever reason.
2006-08-04 16:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking so hard, join groups to make friends. If you force trying to find a girlfriend half the time you hook up with the wrong person. Make a group of friends first at your community center and then maybe youll meet a friend of a friend of a friend...
2006-08-04 16:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes, Miss Wendy (The Wendy Williams' Experience) was just saying today something like if you just open your eyes you will see that so many more women are into this than you may think. Make eye contact and do not be afraid to ask. A closed mouth never gets fed as my Grandma always said.
2006-08-04 21:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Yahoo groups to see if there is a local lesbian group in your area. Alot of times they'll set up an email group to communicate through.
2006-08-04 16:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet, bad decision. Find a gay community (Club, Group...) near you via internet, then find someone there. Don't try to find a relationship that will go futher than the internet, on the internet, it's too dangerous.
2006-08-04 17:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to a GLBTQ youth group or gay/straight alliance to find other lesbian, bisexual, or straight (and gay friendly) people to be friends with. Then you guys could go to events or clubs where you could find a date. You could try to do the online personals thing but be careful with that, if you are going to meet make sure it's in a very public place.
Oh and ignore the ignorant replys, aka Julia.
2006-08-04 16:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is clearly God giving you the opportunity and message that homosexuality is wrong.
>>>and i try to hook up over the internet<<<
This is just one example of this dangerous sexual lifestyle and you run the risk of contracting sexual and life threatening diseases.
The average lifespan of a homosexual is 41 years. That's over 30 years less than that of a straight person. Do you still think God doesn't think this is an abomination or disgusting act?
2006-08-04 16:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by Julia Encarnacion 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the Julia encarnation : do you know that lesbians are of the lowest risk group of ALL sexual lifestyles?
when we go to gynecology checks, we are labeled as "sexually non-active" and we don't even need a pap smear. so please do pray tell, if we are of the lowest risk group ( yes! heteros stand a better chance at contracting HIV and other sexual disease), then are we the chosen group by God? since He punishes those with "disgusting lifestyles" (yes! heterosexuality included!)
please do clarify your position. and please tell me without wincing that you have never committed sins like pre-marital sex and "unnatural sex" IE: oral sex ? cuz it seems that these disgusting lifestyles are adopted by heteros all over (WAIT!!! maybe that's why you guys have the highest rate of HIV and sexual disease!! NOW! i understand) thank you very much for enlightening me!
now! back to the question! hold your horses babe, you'll fare better in college. at least by then you get to be dating women(which implies a much more mature state of mind) and not babies..... ;) please be patient. good things come to those who wait?
i know these will sound boring to you, but hope is still eternal my dear. try your local LGBT associations or groups, you stand a better chance there. and please make sure you are safe, k?
(sorry gay guys, the above stats didn't look too good for you guys)
hope this helps. regards.
2006-08-04 22:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you check into www.shoe.org
It's a great networking site for lesbians worldwide, with over 100,000 members.
Good luck to you!
2006-08-04 16:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋