He acts like he is joking and he gets a big kick out of it. Sometimes it can be funny and then other times I want to beat the $*!* out of him. He always calls me a lesbian (I am married to a man) and makes lesbian remarks. What coments can a say back to him? I want to put him down for a while and make him feel stupid.
2006-08-04 09:09:51 · 17 answers · asked by littlebopeep 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Um.. Linda? How do I talk about it all the time?
2006-08-04 09:25:30 · update #1
Just tell him in front of his girl friend that she needs to stop sleeping with her girlfriend Oops i mean boyfriend cause he is a real pu**y.
2006-08-04 09:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Putting him down is lowering yourself to his level. But damned wouldn't it feel good. You can take the higher ground and when he zings you in front of others. Come out and ask him." ______ have I done something or is there something about me, that you feel the need to be so hateful and cruel."
If that doesn't work say your a homosexual trapped in a woman's body. Meaning you like men either way. That will get his pea brain doing circles for a while. Good luck.
2006-08-04 09:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he already has a problem feeling inferior , so in some way im sure he does feel stupid and that is why making fun of you makes him feel better.but you have a choice, why continue to put yourself through his torture , stay away and let him know by your actions that you dont deserve to be treated like that and you wont tolerate it. Also why doesnt your friend have your back? I would be there for my girl in a heartbeat
2006-08-04 09:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear.. come one bee cheers.. let me give you one example... dnt even care to the dogs who bark let them bark.. u carry on with your.. work.. wiill u become lesbian if he says.. no ...am i right.. as u are married to man.. thats all u know it better u are not an lesbian so be coooooollll dnt go behind him to argue.. okay one day he will or 1 month he will then he will keep quite.. u try my idea.. every thing will be alright soon and he wount be saying u again and again ... okay .. till then take care bye
2006-08-04 09:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Saif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything back to him, you don't want to sink down to his level. Tell your best friend that her boyfriend is being very rude towards you and you would like it to stop. If she is a good friend she will talk to her boyfriend and tell him to stop it. You can also try your best to ignore it or just not invite your best friend's boyfriend to your home or anywhere else. Your best friend can still come, but just explain why her boyfriend is not welcome.
2006-08-04 09:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by adoss138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him....that would really make him feel stupid..and turn your cheek let him look like he is talking to himself...as long as you respond to his remarks he is going to do that to you...or all and all just don't be around him..your best friend isn't really your best friend sweety, if she is allowing him to disrespect you like this...best thing is to find another friend ....don't ever let anyone allow you to feel this way....86 both of them (86 means dump both of them )...your too good to be going threw this...
2006-08-04 09:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that it is really sad that to compensate for having a small penis he has to make fun of others.....oh yeah that is just as funny now as it was 45 times ago what's the matter to stupid to come up w/ something original, and hum funny my husband doesn't seem to mind I'm a lesbo...we have fun in bed.
2006-08-04 09:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by sweetiepi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men are unable to express themselves properly. Kidding and teasing is something guys do to bond with one another.
He probably doesn't realize his words are honestly affecting you. Sit down and talk to your best friend, and explain to her what's going on. Then maybe you and she can both talk to him and let him know what kind of teasing is acceptible and what isn't.
2006-08-04 09:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to your best friend in front of him "Girl, I feel sorry for you! At least I don't have to sit here and take this!" And get up and leave. That should show your friend what a jerky he is.
2006-08-04 09:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attack his stamina. This will stop him dead in his tracks. Also, this will let your girlfriend know that you are upset. Say things like, at least I can last for more than Two Minutes, or hey dint call me names you should worry about what your friends are calling you.
2006-08-04 09:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋