My group of friends are really close. But last year I met a guy and since my friends didnt like him I started to hang out with my boyfriend more. School is going to be starting soon and my boyfriend has already gad. so know I dont really have anyone at school. My friends call me and want to come over and stuff but sometimes they talk about how im using them now since my boyfriend isnt going to be with me. I really miss hanging out with them. What can I do so that they will still want to be friends and not hate me. Best answer 10 points. Thanks,
2006-08-04 09:05:20 · 7 answers · asked by Classic Blonde Bombshell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You cant blame them for feeling this way because you left them as soon as you found a man and then when he isnt there any more, you have to go crawling back to them. Just tell them that what you did was a very foolish thing to do, cause you could have still hanged out with them no matter how close they were together. And if one of them finds a man and do the say thing to you, you really cant feel bad, cause there is a little thing call Karma.
2006-08-04 09:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
I am not quite following you. You said they call you to hang out. So whats the problem...they obviously want to be friends. Its only natural when you have a group of friends that they talk about each other at some point. Can you honestly say you never talk about anybody behind their back. Its harmless talk, keep being friends and before long you will all be back to normal, unless of course somebody else gets a boyfriend.
That's life!
2006-08-04 09:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make time for your friends. If they are really close friends, they will be accepting of the guy even if they don't really like him. You shouldn't have to separate the time you spend with your friends and the time you spend with your boyfriend. I had that situation once and it was a disaster. If I hadn't dumped the guy, I would have lost all my friends because I wasn't spending any time with them. He wasn't worth all of their friendships. So try to hang out with your friends more.
2006-08-04 09:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by xxjoanna_maexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they talk about you they are not really your friends why dont you tell them that you miss there company and if they still dont talk to you you should meet some new frineds i am sure they can hang out with u
2006-08-04 09:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you should do is hang out with your friends maybe more then with your boyfriend..... because one day he may brake up with you and then who are you going to hang out with.... plus as i heard once:
"boys will come and go...... but true friends will always be there for you"
so maybe you should also talk to your friends... and if they understand were your comming from.... then thell forgive you but if not then.... maybe for the time being hang out with someother paople!
2006-08-04 09:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by NeveR pRoMisE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you should talk to them about it I mean they can't be that mean to not listen to you. I'm sure they will understand my mom did the same thing to my sister for going out with a guy that is crap and she was awesome....So maybe your friends think you're awesome and the guy is crap lol
CHICKS BEFORE DI(KS!!!
2006-08-04 09:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELP THEM GET BOY FREINDS AND MAYBEE THEY WILL GET A LIFE
2006-08-04 09:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by big T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋