My boyfriend cheated and we were getting married. I am devastated. Someone pleas give me some advice on how to deal with this. I love him with all my heart.
2006-08-04 08:57:17 · 7 answers · asked by BamaBelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do some things that you enjoy. Do something that you haven't done in a long time. Start mingling and going places you wouldn't do before. Go out with some friends. Pamper yourself. It will take time but you will recover. Don't have pitty parties and pick yourself up and find yourself again.
2006-08-04 09:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and know that you're in a certain place at a certain time, which is NOW and realize that you have the power to change and do things from now on. The past can't be undone, there are no 'what-ifs,' no more bf, no more he's the person I wanted to marry. That's all gone and you're over it because that phase in your life is done.
Never let yesterday catch up to today. There are so many things left undiscovered in this world, and it's up to you to figure those out.
2006-08-04 09:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, get used to the past tense... "I loveED him with all my heart"... But, not anymore! It's understandable that you're devastated, but don't let it take over your life. Like everything else, this will pass in time. Focus on the present and the future, not the past!
2006-08-04 09:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as a broken heart is, there's a saying that time heals all wounds. Easier said than done I know. Share some time of the pain by talking to close friends and family. They'll let you know what you already do, they'll just confirm it for you. Sorry for your pain.
2006-08-04 09:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cheated on you now that you are only his Gf what more when you get married , my Advice to you is to move on with your life ate first its hard coz it hurts but with time the pain desappear, give time to your heart and pls think very well what will you do next , Good luck i hope you feel better soon !!
2006-08-04 09:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweety I had abroken heart a little while ago. it's true that time will heal your wound. Stay strong I don't think any man deserve your tears and the one they do they will never make you cry.
2006-08-04 09:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-04 09:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nikola K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋