well, i've been pretty good friends with this guy. He's really great! everytime i'm around him all we do is laugh! And last year we were both in relationships, but we were still really close friends, but my b/f broke up with me, & he was there for me. Well, recently his g/f broke up with him. His best friend told me he was interested in me & was hoping we could maybe get together or watever. But we are such good friends, & I'm afraid that if i say no, he'll not be my friend. But i still want to hang out with him, & who knows i might start to like him alot, because at one time, i did. But i'm afraid that if we got together, & we brake up we'll not be friends afterwards, like my last relationship. I'm afraid of ruining the friendship we have, cause i never want to lose him. Any advice?
2006-08-04 08:50:31 · 9 answers · asked by Kerosene 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing is guaranteed to be forever, neither love nor friendship.
They are both equally breakeable because it is a human relationship based on emotions.
Follow your heart.
2006-08-04 09:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you shouldn't compare your last relationship with a relationship you don't even have. If you don't do it, you might always wonder " if only I had asked him or wonder what if" If you two are really as good of friends as you say you are, then even if things went sour, not that they will, you should be adult enough to over come your differences and still be friends. Besides what if he says no? then what? you not going to talk to him again? Just don't compare an old relationship with a possible relationship in the future.
2006-08-04 16:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better if your best friends first you know how he is.first before jumping in, if he's a great guy and you think he would be great boyfriend material and you like him than go for it . just keep being best friends through the relationship and it should work.if you say no I'm sure he'll understand and still be your friend.if it don't work you can sometimes still be friends after wards. I am good friends with 3 of my ex bf only one is still hurt and wont talk to me, o-well his lose anyways.
2006-08-04 17:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u kno that the best relationships start out from being the best of friends so if he asked u out just say yes and tell him wen he asked u to be his b/f that if it dosent go well then can we still be friends than it wont be such a surprise
2006-08-04 15:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean. but u can't stop love. this friendship will have to fall apart. if u say no, he will leave (from experience i know). if u say yes, u will eventually either break up or get married. choose the less of those evils. take the option that gets u married or nothing. say yes and see where that takes u. as cher said "do u believe in life after love?" ask urself, do u believe in friendship after love? not likely. say yes.
good luck!
2006-08-04 15:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by psgr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all do you want to go out with him or not? if you do then talk to him tell him you wanna go out with him and you still want to be friends with him. it may seem akward at first but then you'll get used to it trust me.
2006-08-04 16:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by bonee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell.......but it sounds like you both are perfect for each other.
Good Luck!
2006-08-04 16:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friends can make the best lovers
2006-08-04 15:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have a talk with him and tel him how you feel that's only fair
2006-08-04 15:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋