2006-08-04 08:45:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell her. Be flattered and tell her you respect her and support her but can not love her that way because you do not have her same orientation.
2006-08-04 08:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. You don't have to do anything that goes against your nature. Tell her that you're into men only and would rather not pursue anything beyond a basic, platonic friendship with her. If she doesn't accept no for an answer, she's not truly your friend.
2006-08-04 09:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful_Brown_Eyed_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her. Be polite and let her know that you'll continue to be her friend but that is all you can be. If she's a true friend, then she will understand and respect you. It will work out. I have a hot female friend whose been hit on countless times by other women, and she lets them know that she is flattered but is not interested.
2006-08-04 08:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a way to tell her this without making her feel less of a human...which I'm not implying you would do. Just be very careful about how you go about turning her down.
2006-08-04 08:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Be kind. Tell her you support her and have feelings for her as a friend, nothing more.
2006-08-04 08:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is your friend so u should feel comfortable enough to just tell her your not Gay.... Tell her your flattered but it just wont work cuz you st8
2006-08-04 09:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by T@J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, your not like that, i'v had that problem before, i fell in love with one of my friends who was straight, she just told me, "im not like that, and i never will be, im sorry"
2006-08-04 09:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by alexfashing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you respect her and she needs to respect you too.
yall are only friends and it will stay that way. unless, you want to go out with her
2006-08-04 10:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by boricua4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, tactful and kind. tell her how much you value her friendship and how flattered you are, but you just want to be friends.
2006-08-04 08:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her your straight.
Tammi Dee
2006-08-04 09:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋