My man's aunt raised him so I consider her kind of my mother in law... now?

Question

My daughter stays over her house approx. once every two months. I do not have a good relationship with her we do not speak but my daughter told me the last time she stood over that when she stays she sleeps in the bed with her and her husband. Now I don't really know her husband because like I told you we don't speak so I don't go over her house but my daughter calls her grandma and they are close. My daughter loves to stay over and she never has a problem accepting her. I feel uncomfortable with my daughter sleeping with this man when she stays over. My daughter is 5 years old. Am I wrong for feeling this way? My man says he doesn't want to say anything to her because it'll create a big argument so i decided for my daughter to not stay over anymore. Whats your opinion?

Answer 1

I think you should try to get to know your man's aunt or whatever she is. I think you should also tell her that if your daughter is going to be staying over at her house once every two months then she has to sleep in her own bed. If she asks why just tell her that is what she does at home and you would like her to do at her house. With any of the other problems i recommend you just talk to her.