idk if it'z the way i talk or the way i dress. but i want to change
2006-08-04 08:35:58 · 28 answers · asked by lilstunna5536 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
who cares what they think? as long as u know the truth screw every one else.. oh wait.. don't!
2006-08-04 08:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changing to please men is the worst possible thing that you can do to yourself. Just be who u r and speak and dress in the way that makes you comfortable. Try to be with someone who appreciates you for who you are and never stoop low. Maybe the guys tell you that so u can try to prove it to them so they can have sex with you, with no intention of having a relationship with you. Men like to play games and if they can persuade u to lose ur virginity with them they will try to get u to do other things that are beyond decent. Just be who u r , if ur friends don't got a problem with u then ur ok. ask them and see what they say. Hope u make the right decision. Don't do anything u might regret. Think before u act.
2006-08-04 08:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
^^ JTz probablly right person above me ^^
Well, anywho,
Why should you change just becasue people are putting a stain on your reputation? You should remain true to yourself. You yourself knows that you are a virgin, and it's not like you can exactly prove that you still hold the virgin status, is it? People are just jealous because they think you got some action and they didn't. Trust me, everyone who is saying **** about you is a virgin themselves, probablly wanting some of that action too. Just ignore then, and remian true to yourself, do not change yourself, it could just lead to more controversy.
2006-08-04 08:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change because some guy don't think you are a virgin that is your own personal information who gives a crap if someone thinks your not. As long as you know the truth don't change how you are unless you think that if you come across as a virging will land you a man, your crazy if thats what you want.
2006-08-04 08:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't make heads or tails of some of your question, but let me say this.
You're a virgin. Be proud of that and save it for your husband. He will LOVE you for that, it's a wonderful gift. QUIT WORRYING about the guys that don't believe you/think you are, etc. Don't discuss your sexuality with them. They're not worth your virginity. Just be confident of who you are and the choices you have made, don't worry about getting a new look.
2006-08-04 08:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to dress more sophisticated and have your hair its natural hair color. But if boys think that of you it probably has something to do with the way you act. The most important thing to do is act like a lady. If you don't know how to wear a skirt you shouldn't wear one a when you speak don't be loud, and always use manners just the simply things you know. You don't want to be fancy but you don't want to be slutty. Then again boys just say things like that to be crud. Hope I helped.
2006-08-04 08:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by White Flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably the way you walk, or maybe you resemble someone they know, whose nto a virgin. Or perhaps they someone who told them, you're not a virgin. You must know how rumors are.
Did you ever pretend with a guy, and then told some select alleged friends who had dared you or challenged you to have sex, that you and the guy you pretended with,, had it? That creative act could have somethin to do with it, too, if you did that. But I don't imagine you did.
2006-08-04 08:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably everything you do. maybe try to be a little more natural. don't try and doll yourself up for the boys. do what makes you feel comfortable. if guys are still wondering whether you're a virgin or not, so what. Just be yourself. WHo cares what everyone else thinks
2006-08-04 08:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People naturally will judge you by who you hang out with. What you wear? How you be behave. Basically your character.
For example: You have grown up with your best friend since childhood. She is a slut now and you aren't but you hang out because she's your long time friend.
People will assume you are a slut first before the assume she is a virgin like you.
To be or not to be? Hmmm..............................judge for yourself. And the truth will always set you free.
2006-08-04 08:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you want to change? Appearing not to be one, or actually being one. Listen, let people think what they want. I was a virgin until marriage and it was a source of pride. People assumed I wasn't either. I guess that they just assume that pretty, nice and/or popular girls are automatically going to sleep with people.
2006-08-04 08:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Madelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think those kind of opinions should matter. If guys think you aren't a virgin and they're saying it outloud to you, that just tells you the guys are out for something. Get what I'm saying? Just be yourself.
2006-08-04 12:53:16 · answer #11 · answered by mocdip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋