I have never been pregnant and I just assume that I can't conceive. But my sweetheart is a twin and I really want to be the one the give him twins. We have already had a conversation about children, but I failed to mention that I think I am not fertile. I like him so much and I'm scared he won't want to have sex anymore if he knows I can't have children. By the way we aren't really trying, someimes we use contraception and sometimes we don't. This leads me 2 believe if I got pregnant he would be ok with it!!
2006-08-04 08:24:23 · 7 answers · asked by BREIZY2SHA 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If you dont know for sure if you can or can't, you should make an appointment to see a gynocologist. It might be that you werent ovulating at that point in time when you had sex without protection. If he loves you, he will stay with you no matter what. If he does leave you because you cant have children (when you know) then he didn't deserve you in the first place. You're a princess and deserve to be treated like one.
2006-08-04 08:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your boyfriend REALLY loves you then he WILL understand. When I had thought that I could not have any more kids my husband was down yes, yet like he said there is ALWAYS some other way to have a baby! If you have NEVER been told this by your ob with this problem though I wouldn't say you can not! I was told I could NOT and I am proof that it was in GOD'S will that I could! I am now nine weeks!
2006-08-04 16:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it. Bring up ?'s like: Do you want children?, How many do you want?, What if I was unable to have kids or if you were unable to? It is better to get these things answered before you get married (if you are planning on it). Don't assume that you can not conceive though. My sister in law did not use protection with her husband for 7 years and now they have a son.
2006-08-04 15:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tazaor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i have been to get her for 5 years now , and we were the same way.. we used it and then sometimes we did not.. i just had a baby on my b-day this last march.. it took us a long time to have one... we were not trying.. we were just like if it happens it happens.. i though i could not have kids for a long time ether, but it happens just give it time go and get checked if it will make you feel better... also if he really loves you he will stay with you no matter what.. i have a friend and she can't have kids and they have been together sense the 8th grade and now they are marriend... they are 22 i think.. so i hope that helps
2006-08-04 15:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by a_hesselrode 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we can't answer that question for him u would have to sit him down and ask him that question theres only two answers to the question and he's gonna have to give u 1 of them but in a situation like this u will find out how much he really loves u
2006-08-04 16:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by powderjusblazin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok huney it takes time to convieve i know u are frustrated and i though the same thing that i wasent fertile it took us 6 mons to have a baby, dont give up, u never know when it will come, go to the doctors and see when is ur most fertile day mabey he can give u something to improve ur chances, hey u never know it may be him
2006-08-04 15:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you back he wont care. if he cant exept that you need to kiss him good bye. no guy is worth the pain of heartache!
2006-08-06 08:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by cliderocker50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋