Ok we both have had problems in the past and both have cheated(him a bit more often than me) we are having problems associated with his past. I love him and we have a 6 week old son, he says if I "move on" he won't make it. He has proven he loves me but due to circumstances we cannot live together possibly forever. I have a crush on a guy, but don't know weather I should move on or not.
2006-08-04 08:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DHS will not allow us to live together.
2006-08-07 04:04:52 · update #1
Since the details are not here about...why...DHS said you and him cannot live together I'm thinking there's a Good reason.
I'm a single parent and if I had to be away from my child I could not stand it so I know where his heart lays.
Loving someone you cannot have is another heart felt throb we should never endure meaning him loving you and he cannot be with you.
This is a sad story ( your question ) especially for the child because a child needs both parent I seen and heard the emotions of my child wanting her mother after she went to heaven to be an angel to look over us both with my other children.
So before something bad happens... cause life is so short try and forget about them crushes and think about the child and the man who wish every breath he takes to have you and his child back together as a family once more.
Together you and him reach that goal Okay!
2006-08-11 13:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not given us key information necessary to give an informed response. You are hiding the crucial scruples facts - for good or bad reasons.
If you want to add more information, I'd be happy to give you more of a position.
Regardless, discuss these issues with a professional counselor. The circumstances that you think will prohibit you "possibly forever" are probably not a impossible as you perceive.
You should resolve your relationship with the first gentleman before abandoning him for another. And you need to figure out better parameters for yourself to avoid "cheating" (your characterization). You can't control him, but you can control your own actions.
2006-08-07 03:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only do you need to move on with having other relationships, but you need to move on with your future by finding interests that will increase your knowledge. In order to provide a better life for yourself and child, you should try and get yourself an education where it will throw you into a class of society that can enrich your job opportunities, cultural knowledge and inspire you to reach for higher goals. Then you would choose the type of man who will commit to you and build a life for yourselves.
2006-08-11 17:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a lot. in some circumstances when we are having difficulty, we will ask for advice from a peer or older guy. yet except that, no, we do not spend a lot if any time chit-chatting about relationships. That appears a 'lady element'
2016-10-15 11:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to sort ur problems out with him first dont break his heart like that
2006-08-11 03:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by juicylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋