and she steals your money. So you accuse her and u aren't friends anymore. But then you find out it wasn't like that and you lost it at your gandmas house. How can you say I'm sorry to that person?
2006-08-04 07:59:55 · 16 answers · asked by Rufino C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Explain to her that your sorry and that you didn't mean to blame her. Also you have to make it up to her by taking her out with the "stolen" money !
2006-08-04 08:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by smorgan1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at the end of the day you have to see it from her point of view. she was wrongly accused and she bound to not like that. Just let her know that you understand this. If she doesn't answer your calls or ignores you then just send her a text she can't run away from that and let her know how you feel. Once she sees this she will realise you are serious about wanting to be friedsn again, but also consider why you accused her in the first place. Lack of trust maybe only you can decide that!
2006-08-04 08:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lipzyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say " I'm sorry, I lost the money at my grandmother's house, I shouldn't have blamed you for it, that was wrong of me. Can you forgive me?" If she still hesitates then tell her " I really am sorry I hurt you, I understand that your feelings won't change that quickly, I hope we can be friends again.
If that doesn't help then just always be nice to her, just learn in the future not to accuse people before you know for sure.
2006-08-04 08:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by wiseroxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight out tell her, or if you dont want to feel stupid about it, just pretend you never found it and tell her you want to be friends again, and sorry of accusing her, and u dont want that situation to come in between your friendship.
2006-08-04 08:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very very difficult. You have lost their trust as most assuredly you lost trust in them.
If that person really cares for you then an apology, and time, will do it. But it all depends upon how much you hurt them.
2006-08-04 08:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and invite her out to do something. Tell her what happened and apologize. If she a real friend she'll forgive you. Next time don't be some quick to jump to conclusions.
2006-08-04 08:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Aumatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply just say that you are sorry, that you should have believed him or her and that you would do anything to let the person know how sorry you are
2006-08-04 08:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like that. "I'm sorry. I was upset about the money, and I obvioulsy jumped to conclusions. That was wrong, and I know that I should have trusted you. Can you forgive me?"
2006-08-04 08:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by carolynnnna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch that is a tough one........ try to talk to her in person and apoloigize, explain why u thought she "might" have taken it then ask her how much u value her as friends and ask if u can make it up to her cause u want it to go like it was before
2006-08-04 08:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her. and tell her that you made a mistake and that you are sorry. Thats what happened to me. and i know how you feel.
2006-08-04 08:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by **L¡Z 88** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋