Im so sad... the father of my baby left me when i was 2 months pregnant. Called like once a month during the whole pregnancy and didnt show up or call while i was giving birth. We got back together after the baby was born and that lasted for like a month then he started accusing me of cheating and lying (no reason) and he said it wasnt going to work out. Now he still calls me like twice a day to be hateful and accuse me.If its over what is he doing? I do love him and i want him to KNOW that i havent been with anyone. What do i do or say?? Why does he treat me so bad. This "man" is 30
2006-08-04 07:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he doesnt want to be a parent, he is torn between doing the right thing and keeping the freedom he used to have in his life, but he doesnt hate you, but he does hate the fact that he is now a parent and in by seeing you it is a reminder of it, he is doing these things to accuse you of cheating, ect as a way to really take some of the blame off himself in not having protected sex, ect and if he accuses you of cheating it is only so it can lessen the fact that doesnt have to take any responsibility for the child but if a man is willing you leave you pregnant then it is best to move on, you dont need a man who isnt willing to own up to his responsibilities, you have to think of the wellbeing of the child and his or her future whether this man decides he wants to be in your life or not and you & your child deserves so much more than someone who has already proven that he really isnt going to be there , take steps to secure a good future for yourself and this child and make sure you have a good support system and make sure you apply for child support because whether this man wants to be in your life and the childs he is still obligated to pay for the child he brought into the world...good luck..
2006-08-04 08:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be subject to that type of abuse. Esp since you are raising this child alone. This personally sounds like a legal battle that attorney's would be glad to help you out with.
Dont waste your time on someone that does those things to you whether he is the father of your kid or not. You deserve better no matter what!
2006-08-04 08:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sad to hear your story but even more sad to heat you still love this man. keep your child on mind and the fact this man has not been there for the two of you. he's no good get over him.take the bastard to court and make him help you with your baby.what's worst he's 30 and acts like 5. next he calls you hang up you have nothing to say to this man.
2006-08-04 08:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a very immature and irresponsible guy.(Sorry) Why would you want someone like this in your life? Do yourself and your baby a favor, stop answering the phone when he calls, you'll be better off. good Luck!!
2006-08-04 08:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is harrassing you, don't let him get away with it. As much as it hurts you need to file a case against him to make it stop. You need all of your attention focused on your child, not the big child that is supposed to be it's father.
2006-08-04 08:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't hate you he's just irresponsible! Maybe he's afaird he's not yet ready to be a father! You should give him some time!
2006-08-04 08:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kimathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz men never grow up.
2006-08-04 08:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do my boyfriend hate me for what i did to him i said lose my number ok
2006-08-04 08:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a insecure moron ,drop him cut all communication
2006-08-04 08:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by kiggy e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋