GOD gave my best friend to me but i lost her due to my own mistake.Actually we were friends since we were in 8th class.She was very possessive about me,so was i.but due to another girl she started fighting with me,she started blaming me that i don't love her any more.But true thing was that i also started loving that other girl.but in our 11th class,i made my bestfriend to believe that she was the only girl that i loved her.in next year,we had a misunderstanding regarding our friendship and we stooped talking to each other.Now there had been 2 yrs.that we'd not talked to each other.we r studying in different cooleges in different cities.I've her address,her cell no.but i didn't call her once neither she did.Now,i am in the same college in which that other girl is stuaying and we r living in same room in hostel.my best friend knows this thing.But i miss her,her love.Suggest me should I wait for her to contact me or i should contact her but how???????
2006-08-04 07:38:08 · 11 answers · asked by Coolgal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My opinion is to call her and tell her that you don't remember what caused your fall out but you miss her and you wont things to go back like they were. Then let her take the next step.
2006-08-04 07:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay, you were best friends right? so more or less you know each other better than anyone else, think back when you made her angry, what did you do to make amends? or some special memory the two of you shared (and remember), something meaning full - even if its silly - just to remind her of how you guys were. for starters, a simple hi would suffice, after you've got her in a conversation. try to inject those little anecdotes of the two of you and if she remembers those and responds positively you are in the right track my friend! as for the other girl, are you sure she's out of the picture? old ghosts (or ex girlfriends) have a way of popping up in the most inopportune time. good luck!
2006-08-04 15:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by zashima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should contact her, but be respectful of her feelings toward you. She has probably had her feelings hurt as have you. But time has passed and maybe if there was friendship before there will be a way to spark it again.
2006-08-04 14:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by BAILEYROX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gal go n talk wd her donn't get a mistake again i did that too but its not good i know coz its also happeing to me every peson neeeded a best frnd & go n ask her abt ur feeling i think she feels the same.b'coz a frndship is so imp for everyones life i know that just go....................
2006-08-04 14:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter, telling her that you miss her friendship. give her your address, but no apologies. if she wants to start the friendship back up, she will.
2006-08-04 14:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by tuxie_is_a_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adk people if they saw or heard from her. It is nothing wrong in a situation like this to become the bigger person.
2006-08-04 14:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by bicheeeened30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love and friendship..one shud not delay...............move fast u will find the heat wave from her side tooo
2006-08-04 14:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go ahead and contact her,maybe shes waiting for you to contact her.good luck.
2006-08-04 14:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz let me know her address
2006-08-04 14:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by john_0502000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email her
2006-08-04 14:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋