2006-08-04 07:17:38 · 19 answers · asked by policewoman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
uh that's statutory rape just waiting to happen. if you lie they'll find out. just tell them the truth
2006-08-04 07:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by shiara_blade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be mean but a 20 year old man isn't going to limit himself to 1 16 year old girl. Think twice because chances are this guy isn't going to just be doing you, he'll be doing other chicks too. Be careful, it is too risky these days with diseases and psycho's. You have rare parents who trust you, it's not worth some guy who is more than likely using you. (I am a guy so I pretty much Know how the male mind operates at 20) Good Luck.
2006-08-04 14:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age the age difference between the two of you is a BIG thing. Shame on this 20 year old boyfriend he has no business messing with a girl under the age of 18. And by the way in case you and he are not aware you are JAIL BAIT in most if not all states.
You are too young, find some friends your own age.
2006-08-04 14:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we say...Illegal! Four year age difference! And since I'm a mandated reporter I'm going to have to report that!!!! (j/k) I think you should back away from that. If any guy that is 20 and going after a 16yr old. He is most likely a nasty creep...trust me I've had some experiences!
2006-08-04 14:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by hottalikafire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't your parent were young before you they know what a 20 year old wants with a 16 year old... and nothing you say will change that because the minute you find out what he really wants from you it will be to late and your parents will down on you because you didn't listen...parents aren't here to be nags but to help you live a better life than they did...
2006-08-04 14:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell your parents that means that you are not ready for a boyfriend who is 20 years old? I think you should stick with someone your own age but you are your own person and you basically should know what you want. Go with your instinct.
2006-08-04 14:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Valerie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 yr old guys only want 16yr olds to rape. It's RAPE, because you are still a CHILD! You arn't even out of highschool yet. What else would he want with you. Think he wants to deal with you and your parents, when he can go out with an adult girl who can do whatever she wants? Get a brain!! Don't let him use you! ANYTHING ELSE HE TELLS YOU IS A LIE TO GET IN YOUR PANTS!!! Don't be another DUMMY!
2006-08-04 14:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by wishiwereatthebeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just tell it to them, and hope that they'll understand. Maybe you should wait a couple years though considering youre only sixteen, Maybe when youre twenty and he's twenty four it wont seem so much. Then it will seem like an illusion. lol
anyways, good luck with your relationship
Seriously, WAIT!
2006-08-04 14:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by pikasurfergyrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, your in trouble.
At 16 a 20 yo guy is just using you.
I don't care what he says or how you feel, he is using you and nothing else.
2006-08-04 14:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont tell them anything until your pregnant. i sure as hell wouldnt trust my child if she was dating someone who likes to be a pediphile. he is too old for you until you are 18. then once your 18, 4 years wont matter.
2006-08-04 14:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is illegal. how do your parents feel about breaking the law?? and really, besides sex, what do you have in common with a 20 year old?? i mean, guys are immature but give me a break!
2006-08-04 14:21:49 · answer #11 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋