i have good job and good situation.
2006-08-04 06:31:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try one of those websites that help you connect. Or maybe you'll find someone here. I went to Church and prayed for a husband and I got one after about three years. You just have to have faith but it works.
2006-08-04 06:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello mastoore M,
You need to get out more. You put so much effort into your job and your situation and not as much effort into making yourself attractive to a future mate. Maybe you need to go to a gym and lose some weight, There's a lot of guys working out in the gym.
How about going to a beauty parlor and get a make-over. Even just a slight change in how you look might get some attention. You need to get some single girlfriends (maybe from your work) and head out to some of the night spots. I'm sure that a caring girlfriend can be honest with you about how you are doing things.
Most bars are regular sausage fests, filled with guys and not many interested women. In fact, most places are filled mostly with single guys. A lot of cities have singles clubs that have planned social activities and outdoor trips. Check those out.
The thing is, if you are just looking for a husband, and not just finding a guy, then guys pick up on that pretty easily. It's just like the guys looking at you as just a piece of meat. You sort of feel like you're not really important in that special way, don't you? It's the same with guys. They pick up on that desperation pretty fast, and they know that they really aren't as important to you as that ring that they give you.
Happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-08-04 13:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went thru yr past questions. U have written abt depression and death. Is yr "good job and good situation" holding u back from letting yourself go into a relationship. R u setting standards which are too high for those who like u? And the ones that u like, they reject u?
Talk to those who u are comfortable with. Go to web sites. Meet people. And don't be obsessed abt this matter like achieving a sales target.
Wish u all the best.
2006-08-04 13:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? You see life begins for men at 40, for women life begins when your married. I say your still young, enjoy life. Have you ever been to a relationship before? Are you holding back something? What type of person are u? Are you introvert or extrovert? Is your social life ground zero? Then do something bout it. Try to widen your circle of friends. Dont look for marriage proposal but look for a male friend whom you feel at ease. And dont think much bout marriage, it well just stress you out.
2006-08-04 14:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by shannon s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good place to meet single men is a laundy mat., the store,ayube the mall. Then there is the inernet, Some have single chat rooms. ust be really careful untill you meet them face to face. If you get the wronge vibes then you know he is not Mr. Right. Always meet in busy areas , like restaurants etc, others around. . Good Luck Pem
2006-08-04 13:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you currently seeing someone? That would probably be a good start. What attracts you to someone? Are you in a constant cycle of relationship after relationship? Maybe you need to take inventory and see what you can change.
If you approach relationships the same way everytime, you're going to get the same results.
2006-08-04 13:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having someone to ask you to get married is a good idea - so find a boyfriend with the same interests and is about the same age or older - someone looking to settle down as you are yourself.
Then, let things progress naturally - don't get too pushy about marriage - it might scare him off!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-08-04 13:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go online to match.com and other dating sites. Ask your friends why you are still single. Maybe you have some idiosyncrasies that need to be fixed. Are you being to picky.
Anyway, no use sitting home. Put yourself out there. Try to go on one date a week!
2006-08-04 13:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sensible Weddings- Accessories 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy being single... try all the things you have wanted to try and ENJOY it... when u are looking "he" will not be found. But in the midst of ewnjoying the life you have created for yourself, "he" will cross your path...or "she"...had friend who discovered a friend she shared dance class with he discovered her and their friendship blossomed into marriage after 1.5 years of dating. She was 39 and married for the first time. Good Luck
2006-08-04 13:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 33 years old too. But ironically I consider myself a WOMAN, not a girl.
2006-08-04 13:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋