i play on a boys soccer team because according to my teammates i play like a boy. well anyway every year the younger teams and older teams mix up teams and scrimmage for fun .my friend who is a goalie ended up on the other team. the game went on and i got to kick a penalty shot . well it went right through the goalie(my friends) hands and drilled him in the nuts (i was not aiming there) he was down for like 5 min and the whole time i was apologizing and saying it was an accident and i didn't mean it.he got up and gave me a dirty look and after the game he yelled at me for "putting him through so much pain and i never should've kicked that hard". well he got me mad so i told him he could've just caught it but then i felt bad cuz i know it hurts and i apologized yet again well he stalked off and hasn't talked to me in days. I think he is being unreasonable and don't know how to reconcile with him.. how about some input on the situation? plz
2006-08-04 06:26:10 · 9 answers · asked by Leah 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
He needs to grow up! Im sure you didnt intend to hurt him, nor hit him in the nuts! He was probably just embarassed that a girl could drill it hard enough to hurt him like that, he is probably hearing it from his guy friends that he got hurt by you! Give him time and tell him to quit his whining.
2006-08-04 06:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to REALLY grow up how is it ur fault that u accidentally kicked to hard and it is not like u wanted to miss the shot or anything he should have been a better goalie and if it hurt so what it is not ur fault if sorry did not help maybe send him a card make it thoughtful but humorus and maybe he will forgive u even though it was not ur fault but if u feel he is a true friend then u should try to take him back even if it means him being mad at u for a while...hope that helped!! good luck!!!
2006-08-04 06:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by high school musical LOL! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That stinks. Im so sorry youve had a falling out alongside with your pal. Dont complication, he will come around. purely provide him some area. At te maximum, you are able to write him a letter with multiple complimenting in it, so some distance as his goalie skills flow. yet another stable ingredient you're able to do, is to tell human beings what a large goalie he's, etc... issues will artwork out, purely enable him have his area... shop an athletic supporter reachable (an further large, lol) and wrap it up for him, all exact, with a particular card, that reads "you have good sized cajones, pal. thank you for being a competent pal"... and purely provide hm this recent if he accepts your apology, for a litle humor... or as a final ditch attempt to win him lower back, and get him giggling lower back. Laughter is often the main suitable drugs.
2016-10-01 11:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by stealy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's his problem. Anyone playing goalie should know to wear a cup supporter to protect the little guys from what happened to him. I'm sure you weren't aiming there so tell him to grow up. You apologized once, that's enough.
2006-08-04 06:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're supposed to kick the ball as hard as possible, his pride is probably hurt cause a girl scored on him and on top of that it hit him in the nuts.. tell him to quit being a wuss and suck it up. I wouldn't fault you for anything.. if he was a good goalie he would've let it hit his hands at the very least.
2006-08-04 06:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by xjujijimex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hurts so nthat is making him mad, but at the same time he knows that you did not do it on purpose, so it's not your fault. This leaves him confused,
Avoid him for a few days and then try to be friends again. If he still doesn't want to, tell him he's more of a girlie than you are, and then get rid of him..You don't need him.
2006-08-04 06:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha that's quite funny..... it was clearly an accident and him being a guy, he will take it as a grudge now... since it was his Man-hood that was hit... don't worry bout it..you did your part and apologized and he is still mad... don't get worked up over it..if he still can't get over it in a few short months(2-3months), clearly you shouldn't hang around him, since he needs to grow up if he can't get over it.
2006-08-04 06:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by Iceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is being childish and unreasonable. You really want someone like this in your life?
I'd simply ignore him and get on with my own life.
2006-08-04 06:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK as far as I can see you did more than your part!!! It's his problem now!!! I thought it was mandatory to wear a cup?!?!?!??!!!?!?
2006-08-04 06:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋