my mom thinks im a whore !!!?

Question

the other day she was in this empty room in our house all it has i a bed and a old coach and a dresser well there is a pack of condoms in the dresser that she found and she think me and my bf have been doing stuff and we have not i know who the condoms came from my dad has a frined that comes over some times and they drink beer and the guy that is friends with my dad brought his son over and his son brought is gf over but no one knows they were doing stuff in that empty room so i did not tell on them cause i know how it feels to be tattled on it sucks so i dint do nothin so now my mom think i have been having sex with my bf in the house and she thinks im some kind of lil whore now what do i do ???

Answer 1

Tell the truth. But they might lie, and then your mom thinks you are a whore AND a liar. But at least your pride and self esteem stays intact.

Answer 2

Okay I just want you to know how difficult it was to read that question. They came up with this thing called "punctuation" and it really works. You might want to look into it.

First off, did she actually call you a whore or are you just assuming that? Because that is not cool for a mother to call her own daughter a whore, no matter what she has done.

Secondly, you really need to tell your mom what happened. If she doesn't believe you, there must be some underlying trust issues between the two of you that go further than this whole condom thing, and you should try to find out what they are and resolve them.

Don't get defensive with your mom when she accuses you of something, it will only make you look guilty, and she won't believe you.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Tell her the truth. What's more important? Your reputation with your mom? Or not tattling on some boy? Try to use some punctuation next time.

Answer 4

That's not the definition of a whore. Anyways, just tell your mom the truth. Don't worry about tattling on that boy and his girlfriend; they deserve it- they're the reason that your mom is treating you like this!

Answer 5

Regardless of how badly it'll suck, you need to tell your mother the truth about the fact that your dad's letting his friend's kid use your mother's house as a sex den.
It's too bad, and it will be a bummer for your dad, but he should be old enough and mature enough to know better, but whatever. At least then your mother won't think you're screwing your BF in her house (which is probably what's p!issing her off more than the thought of you having sex at all!).

And WTF, how come the friend's kid can't do the nasty at his dad's house???

Answer 6

I think you should have her take you to the doctor. The doctor can prove that you have/have not had sex. Prove her wrong! And after that, tell her the story. You woulnt be tattling, you would be saving yourself from alot of trouble. Good luck and God bless!

Answer 7

tell her about the boy and his girl was doing i know u dont like to tattle but hell when u got to u got 2 trust me then when u tell her the truth and she believes u she will feel so damn dumb and then she will do every thing in return to make u feel better i feel a shoppin spree comin lol

Answer 8

Tell her the truth about it or tell your dad's friend's son to come over and explain if he really did it or not.

Answer 9

If you are that upset about how she thinks of you then you need to tell the real truth. Tell her everything that has happened and be honest about it. If you are genuine about what you are saying then she will respect you more for what you tried to do.

Answer 10

Tell her the truth about ur fathers friends son bringing his girl friend to ur mothers house.tell her right away if not she might not let u go out with ur boyfriend to be alone.